It never fails that when I or any Black person, be they gay, straight or trans, posts ANY commentary that critiques how whiteness insidiously operates in our communities and beyond, calls out a white person operating in a racist way, or points out that race relations aren't as 'post-racial' as people claim they are the usual predictable stuff happens.
*We're called 'angry','emotional' or whatever euphemism du jour is used to personally attack the writer.
*There is a demand for dissertation level evidence or statistics to back up whatever we said in our commentary.
*We have our commentary nitpicked for perceived 'flaws'.
*Whatever we said in the post is dismissed, belittled or labeled 'anecdotal'
*We're accused of being racist.
*Our post is accused of being 'counterproductive' to the issue we're bringing up.
So why are you tripping about what I said? Is it because deep down, you have exhibited the behaviors at one time or another that I'm talking about in the critique and it's making you uncomfortable?
Or is it because you wish to deny the mountains of evidence that racism is still a problem in our so called post-racial society?
The point is, I have four decades of experience living on this planet. I've been exposed to racism and its effects, observed its impact on my people throughout our history, and had long conversations on an almost daily basis with other African descended people from across the Diaspora about it.
Whites don't have that life experience. So how can you tell me as an African-American or presume to have the authority to tell me what is and ISN'T racist?
Why is anger a legitimate emotion for white people in discourse, but not for Blacks or other people of color?
Why is any critique by a white writer on an issue not greeted with the same shifting goalposts of 'proof' that you require of us?
Why is it that whites can freely criticize my community, but Blacks aren't allowed to do the same without a hostile or angry reaction to it?
Why is it that when white people who make controversial statements that are later proven blatantly false ignore demands from the Black community to apologize for them, but ANY controversial statements that are penned by a Black or POC writer are immediately followed with demands to apologize for them by the White community?
Explain that to me.