A proud unapologetic Black trans woman speaking truth to power and discussing the world around her since 2006
Friday, September 20, 2013
Being A Transwoman IS Being A Woman
TransGriot Note: Guest post by Rebecca Desvignes Aeon.
Being a transwoman is being a woman from the soul, spirit, mind and heart born in the wrong body.
Being a transwoman is not a choice you make, it's who you were born as
from your first breath into this world. Some recognize it early, some late,
but you can't run from your truth.
Being a transwoman is not about dressing up as female one day and
next day as a regular man, that's a crossdresser. A true from the soul
transwoman is a woman that lives 24/7 as a woman.
transwoman is wanting to live a simple life as any other woman. She desires a Boyfriend / husband, a career, a home, a family, and a
stable financial situation. We are not a shemale looking for sex 24/7.
A shemale is not a transsexual woman, a.shemale is a porn performer
surgically altered to look like a woman, for the sole purpose of making
porn movies for money. The words shemale, ladyboy, transvestite, he-she, crossdresser, et cetera is in no association whatsoever with a
transsexual woman. A transwoman is a woman period regardless of her
A true woman is defined by her spiritual femininity,
her ladylike characteristics, and feminine thoughts, not her private parts.
A true trans attracted man would never approach a
transwoman verbally when attracted to her and label her as a shemale, ladyboy, dude,
man, crossdresser, transvestite or he-she. To do so means he does not
view you as a woman. A true trans attracted man would view you as a
woman, potential girlfriend or wife and will proudly walk the streets in public
hand in hand with you.
If a man is only willing to be with you
if you had a vagina, or will if you have the SRS surgery, forget about
him. He does not recognize or appreciate your femininity, your mind and
heart, and still subconsciously looks at you as a man.
If a man
is only interested in you only if you are pre-operative and has an
obsession with penises on a female figure and not your mind, heart and
soul, get rid of him because you deserve better.
A true trans attracted
man will see you as all woman regardless of being pre-operative or post-operative, will treat you as a woman, will see you as a potential
girlfriend or wife, will proudly go everywhere with you and live with you
openly regardless of their family or friends opinions.