The last time I spent any quality time together with with Myles and Precious Brady-Davis was during the 2016 Creating Change in Chicago when Precious was one of the four co-chairs of the event.
We jokingly call both of them the Trans Obamas' because this trans power couple are Chicago residents, have actually met the former POTUS and are both working in the nonprofit sector.
And as you probably guessed, I have much love and respect for both of them.
Back in December, they welcomed a daughter Zayn into the world, and the birth of their child actually led to a policy change in the state of Illinois for trans parents.
The initial birth certificate misgendered both Miles and Precious. It was corrected to show Myles is the father and Precious is the mother.
They also had an interesting journey to parenthood that is a story in itself.
All of that to say that once again, Myles and Precious will be on our TV screens for the TLC show My Pregnant Husband. It's not their first time on TLC, because Precious appeared on Say Yes To The Dress a few years ago.
It not only follows Myles and Precious' journey to parenthood, it also focuses on the challenges they faced as unapologetic Black trans people.
The parenting journey of Seattle based trans man Ari and his cis wife Caitlyn is also followed in this hour long episode as well. It also serves as a comparison and contrast to how the pregnancies of the transgender men differed
.Looking forward to this latest episode of Must See Trans TV happening at 9 PM CDT tonight.
Thursday, July 23, 2020
Monday, July 20, 2020
Miss Trans Global 2020- Talent Competition
As many of you TransGriot readers know, I'm one of the judges for this year's inaugural Miss Trans Global online pageant
We're not at the talent portion of the inaugural competition and getting inexorably closer to the August 1 crowning date for our first queen.
Don't forget, you can vote for your favorites by heading to the Miss Trans Global Facebook page and liking it so your vote will count
And now, the talent competition.
The Catwalk Competition
The Swimwear Competition
The Queens Speech
The Pass The Book Challenge
We're not at the talent portion of the inaugural competition and getting inexorably closer to the August 1 crowning date for our first queen.
Don't forget, you can vote for your favorites by heading to the Miss Trans Global Facebook page and liking it so your vote will count
And now, the talent competition.
The Catwalk Competition
The Swimwear Competition
The Queens Speech
The Pass The Book Challenge
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Black Trans Folks Have Been Trying To Tell Black Cis Peeps What We Need- Y'all Ain't Listening
As you TransGriot readers were aware of, I was part of a two hour Zoom town hall on Saturday that was supposed to be convened in the spirit of All Black Lives Matter and was sold to me as a convo to discuss the needs of our Black trans family.
As you probably guessed in a conversation moderated by a cis Black man and of which nine of the twelve participants were cis, it didn't turn out that way.
Even though we had major Houston trans allies on that panel like BLM-HOU's Ashton P. Woods, Rev. Denise Junious and attorney Jolanda Jones, every time that we started talking about trans peeps, the conversation got diverted and derailed from its intended focus on Black trans lives
While myself, Kaleb Elijah and Tori Cooper managed to get some points across, the end result was that the trans participants and our allies were left frustrated at how the conversation organized by Black Greeks Speak Social Justice turned out.
There was far too much stuff we didn't talk about in the two hours allotted for this conversation.
For starters, we needed to talk about the transphobia in the Black community ranks that is not only in the Black same gender loving community, but has expressed itself in Black Greek Letter Organization (BGLO) ranks as well.
Exhibit A of that BGLO transphobia was the attempt by a faction of Zeta Phi Beta members last year to adopt a diversity statement that sought to bar trans women from joining the sorority. It was rescinded after intense negative media attention and efforts by trans allies within the Zeta Phi Beta ranks.
We didn't talk about the fact that the common thread with many of the Black trans women that have been murdered in the last few years across the country has been intimate partner violence and trans misogynoir
Translation: Cis Black men are killing and gleefully subjecting Black trans women to beatdowns
We didn't go into depth about the role that the Black church and Black media, be it traditional or social media, plays in pushing anti-trans hatred in our community to the point of so called 'comedians' like Lil Duval on shows like The Breakfast Club do on-air advocating for our murders.
Neither did we go in depth about the inaction of our legacy orgs like the NAACP when it comes to advocacy on behalf of Black trans folks. We also didn't talk about the lack of Black trans folks being hired to do policy work inside and outside the TBLGQ community.
I don't doubt for a nanosecond that my Black trans masculine family and our Black non binary siblings have a long list of their own things they need to say to Black cis America as well
So what do Black trans folks need?
The first and most important thing is for y'all to stop killing us or subjecting us to beatdowns.
Periodt.
We do not exist for y'all to beat on us or kill us because you're mad about whatever personal issues you're dealing with. Take those personal issues and problems up with your friendly neighborhood therapist and keep your hands to yourself.
We need Black cis people to cease and desist with debating our existence. Trans folks have been part of our community since the rise of modern humans and we aren't going anywhere.
Stop trying to pawn off your transphobia as a 'disagreement' Discussing whether Wilt Chamberlain, Oscar Robertson, Kareem Abdul Jabbar, Magic Johnson, Michael Jordan or Lebron James are the greatest basketball players ever is a legitimate cause for debate and disagreement.
Trying to claim that Black trans people don't exist when the science and our very existence overwhelmingly say otherwise is not.
Black trans folks need good paying jobs. We need housing. We need competent non discriminatory medical care.
We need Black cis men to stop being 'scurred' and come clean about the fact some of you are attracted to Black trans women. Some of you wish to take that desire further and have long term relationships with us.
Because we Black trans women know many of us have been killed in dating situations, we're going to tell you from the jump we're trans. We do not have to 'trick' or deceive you into walking into our bedrooms. Many of you do so willingly, and you need to stop fronting about that with cis Black women and your homeboys.
We need cis Black women to recognize that we trans women are not your enemy. The white supremacist Karens and Kens who wish to gleefully oppress all of us are. We would rather spend our precious time building sisterhood with other Black cis women, building long term friendships, and uplifting the community together.
While we recognize and acknowledge that the feminine journeys of Black trans and cisgender women are different along with the issues we face as a result, there are some issues that both groups face that we would do well to work together to combat.
We need y'all cis peeps to stop shadily whispering (or yelling) 'That's a Man' when a trans woman is in the club or elsewhere, and she happens to be on her feminine presentation A game. That shyt gets trans women beaten or killed. Mine nor any other trans woman's existence is not an indictment of you or Black womanhood in general.
Hell, the attacks on Black femmes have occurred long before Black trans women started getting written about in 19th century newspapers, and even those articles, like today's 21st century media coverage, were mostly negative.
We need you to not only stop attacking our Black trans kids like Zaya Wade, we need you to stop attacking their parents for loving their kids enough to allow them to honestly and openly live as their true selves.
We need you to stop trying to pass off your transphobia as part of your religion. That is a major sore spot with me, other trans folks and our allies that will get you called out. If your religion calls for you to hate on trans people, then you need a new religion
Since we founded Black trans led organizations to do the policy work that Black legacy orgs wouldn't (and wouldn't hire us for), we need our trans led grassroots orgs properly funded.
We currently have 27 trans people nationwide who are elected officials. Only two of them are Black, and they both sit on the Minneapolis City Council in Councilmembers Andrea Jenkins and Phillipe Cunningham. The trans folks all running for office in this 2020 cycle are predominately white.
We know that must change. So when increasing numbers of Black trans people do decide to run for public office, we not only will need your support, be it financial or otherwise, we will need your votes when we do.
We also need cis elected officials at all levels of government to consider hiring qualified Black trans people to work on their staffs to do the needed and necessary policy work that will help improve all our lives
.
We also need you to listen when we talk about the issues that impact our communities. We trans and gender non conforming peeps are the experts when it comes to talking about our lives.
So unless you have a PhD in gender identity issues, are a geneticist doing research in that area, or a psychologist trained to treat gender dysphoria issues, STFU with your loud and wrong faux faith based opinions about our lives. Your loud and wrong opinion does not trump a trans person's actual lived experience.
Most importantly, we Black trans peeps need you Black cis folks to treat us with the dignity and respect you demand for yourselves.
As you probably guessed in a conversation moderated by a cis Black man and of which nine of the twelve participants were cis, it didn't turn out that way.
Even though we had major Houston trans allies on that panel like BLM-HOU's Ashton P. Woods, Rev. Denise Junious and attorney Jolanda Jones, every time that we started talking about trans peeps, the conversation got diverted and derailed from its intended focus on Black trans lives
While myself, Kaleb Elijah and Tori Cooper managed to get some points across, the end result was that the trans participants and our allies were left frustrated at how the conversation organized by Black Greeks Speak Social Justice turned out.
There was far too much stuff we didn't talk about in the two hours allotted for this conversation.
For starters, we needed to talk about the transphobia in the Black community ranks that is not only in the Black same gender loving community, but has expressed itself in Black Greek Letter Organization (BGLO) ranks as well.
Exhibit A of that BGLO transphobia was the attempt by a faction of Zeta Phi Beta members last year to adopt a diversity statement that sought to bar trans women from joining the sorority. It was rescinded after intense negative media attention and efforts by trans allies within the Zeta Phi Beta ranks.
We didn't talk about the fact that the common thread with many of the Black trans women that have been murdered in the last few years across the country has been intimate partner violence and trans misogynoir
Translation: Cis Black men are killing and gleefully subjecting Black trans women to beatdowns
We didn't go into depth about the role that the Black church and Black media, be it traditional or social media, plays in pushing anti-trans hatred in our community to the point of so called 'comedians' like Lil Duval on shows like The Breakfast Club do on-air advocating for our murders.
Neither did we go in depth about the inaction of our legacy orgs like the NAACP when it comes to advocacy on behalf of Black trans folks. We also didn't talk about the lack of Black trans folks being hired to do policy work inside and outside the TBLGQ community.
I don't doubt for a nanosecond that my Black trans masculine family and our Black non binary siblings have a long list of their own things they need to say to Black cis America as well
So what do Black trans folks need?
The first and most important thing is for y'all to stop killing us or subjecting us to beatdowns.
Periodt.
We do not exist for y'all to beat on us or kill us because you're mad about whatever personal issues you're dealing with. Take those personal issues and problems up with your friendly neighborhood therapist and keep your hands to yourself.
We need Black cis people to cease and desist with debating our existence. Trans folks have been part of our community since the rise of modern humans and we aren't going anywhere.
Stop trying to pawn off your transphobia as a 'disagreement' Discussing whether Wilt Chamberlain, Oscar Robertson, Kareem Abdul Jabbar, Magic Johnson, Michael Jordan or Lebron James are the greatest basketball players ever is a legitimate cause for debate and disagreement.
Trying to claim that Black trans people don't exist when the science and our very existence overwhelmingly say otherwise is not.
Black trans folks need good paying jobs. We need housing. We need competent non discriminatory medical care.
We need Black cis men to stop being 'scurred' and come clean about the fact some of you are attracted to Black trans women. Some of you wish to take that desire further and have long term relationships with us.
Because we Black trans women know many of us have been killed in dating situations, we're going to tell you from the jump we're trans. We do not have to 'trick' or deceive you into walking into our bedrooms. Many of you do so willingly, and you need to stop fronting about that with cis Black women and your homeboys.
We need cis Black women to recognize that we trans women are not your enemy. The white supremacist Karens and Kens who wish to gleefully oppress all of us are. We would rather spend our precious time building sisterhood with other Black cis women, building long term friendships, and uplifting the community together.
While we recognize and acknowledge that the feminine journeys of Black trans and cisgender women are different along with the issues we face as a result, there are some issues that both groups face that we would do well to work together to combat.
We need y'all cis peeps to stop shadily whispering (or yelling) 'That's a Man' when a trans woman is in the club or elsewhere, and she happens to be on her feminine presentation A game. That shyt gets trans women beaten or killed. Mine nor any other trans woman's existence is not an indictment of you or Black womanhood in general.
Hell, the attacks on Black femmes have occurred long before Black trans women started getting written about in 19th century newspapers, and even those articles, like today's 21st century media coverage, were mostly negative.
We need you to not only stop attacking our Black trans kids like Zaya Wade, we need you to stop attacking their parents for loving their kids enough to allow them to honestly and openly live as their true selves.
We need you to stop trying to pass off your transphobia as part of your religion. That is a major sore spot with me, other trans folks and our allies that will get you called out. If your religion calls for you to hate on trans people, then you need a new religion
Since we founded Black trans led organizations to do the policy work that Black legacy orgs wouldn't (and wouldn't hire us for), we need our trans led grassroots orgs properly funded.
We currently have 27 trans people nationwide who are elected officials. Only two of them are Black, and they both sit on the Minneapolis City Council in Councilmembers Andrea Jenkins and Phillipe Cunningham. The trans folks all running for office in this 2020 cycle are predominately white.
We know that must change. So when increasing numbers of Black trans people do decide to run for public office, we not only will need your support, be it financial or otherwise, we will need your votes when we do.
We also need cis elected officials at all levels of government to consider hiring qualified Black trans people to work on their staffs to do the needed and necessary policy work that will help improve all our lives
.
We also need you to listen when we talk about the issues that impact our communities. We trans and gender non conforming peeps are the experts when it comes to talking about our lives.
So unless you have a PhD in gender identity issues, are a geneticist doing research in that area, or a psychologist trained to treat gender dysphoria issues, STFU with your loud and wrong faux faith based opinions about our lives. Your loud and wrong opinion does not trump a trans person's actual lived experience.
Most importantly, we Black trans peeps need you Black cis folks to treat us with the dignity and respect you demand for yourselves.
Saturday, July 18, 2020
Civil Rights Icon Rep John Lewis Dies
We knew this sad day was coming, but it still doesn't lessen the devastation we feel at it happening.
Rep. John Lewis has died at age 80 from stage 4 pancreatic cancer.
He was the sharecropper's son from Alabama who became a leading figure in the fight against Jim Crow segregation. He was a major leader in the African American Civil Rights Movement at just age 23, and one of the last surviving (and youngest) speakers from the 1963 March on Washington.
He later was elected to Congress in 1986, and served for 17 terms as the congressman repping Georgia's Atlanta centered 5th District. He not only voted against Desert Storm and the Iraq War, but led protests on the House floor against apartheid and gun violence., and testified against the nomination of Jeff Sessions to become Attorney General.
He was also a passionate and determined fighter and eloquent voice for voting rights..
John Lewis was demonstrating through his words and actions that all Black lives matter even before it was cool or trendy to do so. He was aloud and eloquent voice for marriage equality. More recently we spoke against the trans military ban.
During the May 2007 NTAC Lobby Day, I was tasked with hitting as many CBC offices as possible.
Of course one of the first offices I decided to visit was Rep John Lewis. I wan't to find out where he stood when it came to trans rights, since he had been a loud consistent voice for marriage equality.
Unfortunately, because the House was doing a lot of procedural voter at the time I was in his office, I spent an hour there talking to his then staffers until I had to leave for an appointment in another CBC office.
But had I had the blessing of talking to him, I would have thanked him for his work in the Civil Rights Movement, and continuing to be a role model for those of us fighting for a better America.
Then I would have asked him my question.
Rest in power, sir All of us who call ourselves activists have you as an amazing possibility model to follow. It's also our task now to get into 'good trouble' to get us closer to the Beloved Community that you and Dr King dreamed about.
Rep. John Lewis has died at age 80 from stage 4 pancreatic cancer.
He was the sharecropper's son from Alabama who became a leading figure in the fight against Jim Crow segregation. He was a major leader in the African American Civil Rights Movement at just age 23, and one of the last surviving (and youngest) speakers from the 1963 March on Washington.
He later was elected to Congress in 1986, and served for 17 terms as the congressman repping Georgia's Atlanta centered 5th District. He not only voted against Desert Storm and the Iraq War, but led protests on the House floor against apartheid and gun violence., and testified against the nomination of Jeff Sessions to become Attorney General.
He was also a passionate and determined fighter and eloquent voice for voting rights..
John Lewis was demonstrating through his words and actions that all Black lives matter even before it was cool or trendy to do so. He was aloud and eloquent voice for marriage equality. More recently we spoke against the trans military ban.
I have fought too long and hard to end discrimination based on race and color to allow discrimination based on gender identity to be considered acceptable.
“This mean, misguided policy takes us back to another place, a darker time. How is it acceptable to target those who love our country so much that they put their bodies and livelihood on the lines for its defense? This is a sad and dark day.
“As a nation and as a people, all Americans should expect and deserve better. There is no place in our society for hate or bigotry. To punish any person based on their sexual orientation or gender identity is a shame and a disgrace, but to penalize those who pledge to serve and protect our country is unconscionable.
“I stand with our transgender service members, and I pray that they will not lose heart. They must know that we love them. We respect them. We are grateful for their service and sacrifice, and most importantly, we will stand for their rights, just as they have stood for ours.”
During the May 2007 NTAC Lobby Day, I was tasked with hitting as many CBC offices as possible.
Of course one of the first offices I decided to visit was Rep John Lewis. I wan't to find out where he stood when it came to trans rights, since he had been a loud consistent voice for marriage equality.
Unfortunately, because the House was doing a lot of procedural voter at the time I was in his office, I spent an hour there talking to his then staffers until I had to leave for an appointment in another CBC office.
But had I had the blessing of talking to him, I would have thanked him for his work in the Civil Rights Movement, and continuing to be a role model for those of us fighting for a better America.
Then I would have asked him my question.
Rest in power, sir All of us who call ourselves activists have you as an amazing possibility model to follow. It's also our task now to get into 'good trouble' to get us closer to the Beloved Community that you and Dr King dreamed about.
Friday, July 17, 2020
Steve Schmidt Rips Trump A New One
MSNBC commentator Steve Schmidt, who ran John McCain's 2008 presidential run, spent two minutes discussing the Trump mispresidency. This is what he had to say.
So all you folks considering petulantly sitting out the 2020 election because your preferred candidate didn't get the nomination, I have one word for you.
DON'T
#FireTrump
#FireTheGOP
“Donald Trump has been the worst president this country has ever had. And, I don't say that hyperbolically. He is. But he is a consequential president. And, he has brought this country in three short years to a place of weakness that is simply unimaginable if you were pondering where we are today from the day where Barack Obama left office. And, there were a lot of us on that day who were deeply skeptical and very worried about what a Trump presidency would be. But this is a moment of unparalleled national humiliation, of weakness.”
"When you listen to the President, these are the musings of an imbecile. An idiot. And I don't use those words to name call. I use them because they are the precise words of the English language to describe his behavior. His comportment. His actions. We've never seen a level of incompetence, a level of ineptitude so staggering on a daily basis by anybody in the history of the country whose ever been charged with substantial responsibilities.”
"It's just astonishing that this man is president of the United States. The man, the con man, from New York City. Many bankruptcies, failed businesses, a reality show, that branded him as something that he never was. A successful businessman. Well, he's the President of the United States now, and the man who said he would make the country great again. And he's brought death, suffering, and economic collapse on truly an epic scale."
"And, let's be clear. This isn't happening in every country around the world. This place. Our place. Our home. Our country. The United States. We are the epicenter. We are the place where you're the most likely to die from this disease. We're the ones with the most shattered economy. And we are, because of the fool that sits in the Oval Office behind the Resolute Desk.
So all you folks considering petulantly sitting out the 2020 election because your preferred candidate didn't get the nomination, I have one word for you.
DON'T
#FireTrump
#FireTheGOP
Tuesday, July 14, 2020
2020 Miss Trans Global Virtual Pageant- Catwalk Competition
The 2020 Miss Trans Global virtual pageant is taking place through the month of July, and as y'all may be aware of, I'm one of the judges for this year.
The contestants have already gone through The Queen's Speech competition and a Pass the Book challenge.
Now it's time for the 2020 Catwalk competition, in which the contestants are wearing black outfits and swimsuits.
You can vote for your faves by heading to the Miss Trans Global Facebook page and liking it.in order for your cast vote to count.
And now, the Catwalk Competition.
The contestants have already gone through The Queen's Speech competition and a Pass the Book challenge.
Now it's time for the 2020 Catwalk competition, in which the contestants are wearing black outfits and swimsuits.
You can vote for your faves by heading to the Miss Trans Global Facebook page and liking it.in order for your cast vote to count.
And now, the Catwalk Competition.
Monday, July 13, 2020
All Black Lives Matter Virtual Town Hall This Saturday
This Saturday I have the honor and opportunity to participate in this Zoom All Black Lives Matter virtual conversation with all these amazing Houston area leaders.
It's from 4-6 PM CDT, and you can register for it via this link. It will also be available on Facebook
Participating in this conversation is Ashton Woods of BLM Houston, Harris County Commissioner Rodney Ellis, former Houston City Councilmember and attorney Jolanda Jones, Rep Garnet Coleman (D-Houston), Assata Richards PhD, Vanessa Enoch PhD, psychologist Dr Daryl Shorter, Pastor Denise Junious, Pastor Leslie Jackson, trans advocate Kaleb Elijah and Tori Cooper.
The moderator for this discussion will be Dr Marlon A Smith.
Looking forward to this event on Saturday, and hope you peeps can join us.
It's from 4-6 PM CDT, and you can register for it via this link. It will also be available on Facebook
Participating in this conversation is Ashton Woods of BLM Houston, Harris County Commissioner Rodney Ellis, former Houston City Councilmember and attorney Jolanda Jones, Rep Garnet Coleman (D-Houston), Assata Richards PhD, Vanessa Enoch PhD, psychologist Dr Daryl Shorter, Pastor Denise Junious, Pastor Leslie Jackson, trans advocate Kaleb Elijah and Tori Cooper.
The moderator for this discussion will be Dr Marlon A Smith.
Looking forward to this event on Saturday, and hope you peeps can join us.
Sunday, July 12, 2020
Kai Shappley Gets Rave Reviews In Netflix 'The Baby Sitters Club' Episode
I've always said about my chosen Austin resident niece Kai Shappley that the camera loves her and the feeling is mutual. I always marvel at the fact this child hardly ever takes a bad photo.
A few months ago she took a trip to Vancouver, BC for which the purpose was unknown to those of us who love her until now.
I had been seeing Netflix promotions of their reboot of The Baby Sitters Club' when I signed in to watch my other fave shows and movies, but didn't have any interest in watching it since the show is aimed at younger viewers.
The Baby Sitters Club is based on the series of books by author Ann M. Martin that were published between 1986-2000. The books were previously adapted for an HBO series in 1990 and a 1995 feature film.
That was until I received a message from her mom Kimberly to check out episode 4 of it. I did, and there was Kai lighting up the screen playing Bailey.
I so enjoyed the episode that Kai was featured in, I binge watched the rest of Season One.
The Baby Sitters Club handled the trans themed storyline with sensitivity. The writers also used a great analogy to describe what it is like to be trans. And of course, bravo on casting a trans child to play a trans child.
Her mom is also pleased and proud of her as well. So is Aunt Monica.
As for our budding preteen thespian? She's still focused on becoming an astrophysicist, but is starting to get interest from Hollywood.
I was happy to get to spend some time with Kai and her mom last year during the Equality Texas 30th anniversary dinner where she, like I did, picked up an award for the work her now nine year old self has been doing to advance trans rights in the Lone Star State .
Kai has also picked up an award that I don't have on my shelf. An Emmy for the Trans in America :Texas Strong Daresha Kyl directed documentary she and Kimberly were featured in.
Who knows? She may have another one in her future.
A few months ago she took a trip to Vancouver, BC for which the purpose was unknown to those of us who love her until now.
I had been seeing Netflix promotions of their reboot of The Baby Sitters Club' when I signed in to watch my other fave shows and movies, but didn't have any interest in watching it since the show is aimed at younger viewers.
The Baby Sitters Club is based on the series of books by author Ann M. Martin that were published between 1986-2000. The books were previously adapted for an HBO series in 1990 and a 1995 feature film.
That was until I received a message from her mom Kimberly to check out episode 4 of it. I did, and there was Kai lighting up the screen playing Bailey.
I so enjoyed the episode that Kai was featured in, I binge watched the rest of Season One.
The Baby Sitters Club handled the trans themed storyline with sensitivity. The writers also used a great analogy to describe what it is like to be trans. And of course, bravo on casting a trans child to play a trans child.
Her mom is also pleased and proud of her as well. So is Aunt Monica.
As for our budding preteen thespian? She's still focused on becoming an astrophysicist, but is starting to get interest from Hollywood.
I was happy to get to spend some time with Kai and her mom last year during the Equality Texas 30th anniversary dinner where she, like I did, picked up an award for the work her now nine year old self has been doing to advance trans rights in the Lone Star State .
Kai has also picked up an award that I don't have on my shelf. An Emmy for the Trans in America :Texas Strong Daresha Kyl directed documentary she and Kimberly were featured in.
Who knows? She may have another one in her future.
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Saturday, July 11, 2020
Valentina Sampaio Makes Trans Modeling History Again!
23 year old Brazilian model Valentina Sampaio is getting quite accustomed to making history.,
In 2017 she became the first out trans model to appear on the cover of VOGUE Paris. Two years later she became the first out trans model to be hired by Victoria's Secret.
And now, Sampaio becomes the first out trans model to appear in the iconic Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue. It's another historic step for her, but another giant leap in visibility for our embattled community.
Sampaio has always been vocal about supporting the trans community in her home country and across the world, and it's a major reason why I'm so down for her.
She noted in her SI essay that 129 trans people were murdered in Brazil last year, and has called for Brazil to recognize the humanity and human rights of trans Brazilians. She also finds it bitterly ironic that she receives more love and support outside of Brazil than she does at home.
Congratulations Valentina on making history again. Going to be interesting to see what history you make next in the modeling world.
In 2017 she became the first out trans model to appear on the cover of VOGUE Paris. Two years later she became the first out trans model to be hired by Victoria's Secret.
And now, Sampaio becomes the first out trans model to appear in the iconic Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue. It's another historic step for her, but another giant leap in visibility for our embattled community.
Sampaio has always been vocal about supporting the trans community in her home country and across the world, and it's a major reason why I'm so down for her.
She noted in her SI essay that 129 trans people were murdered in Brazil last year, and has called for Brazil to recognize the humanity and human rights of trans Brazilians. She also finds it bitterly ironic that she receives more love and support outside of Brazil than she does at home.
Congratulations Valentina on making history again. Going to be interesting to see what history you make next in the modeling world.
The US Trans Caucus Meets!
Back on May 9, the US Trans Caucus got together via Zoom to discuss the changing landscape of American politics.
The US Trans Caucus is comprised of Minneapolis city councilmembers Andrea Jenkins and Philippe Cunningham, and state Reps Brianna Titone of Colorado, Reps Gerri Cannon and Lisa bunker of new Hampshire and Del Danica Roem of VA
Here's the video of that historic meeting of out trans legislators moderated by Councilmember Jenkins..
The US Trans Caucus is comprised of Minneapolis city councilmembers Andrea Jenkins and Philippe Cunningham, and state Reps Brianna Titone of Colorado, Reps Gerri Cannon and Lisa bunker of new Hampshire and Del Danica Roem of VA
Here's the video of that historic meeting of out trans legislators moderated by Councilmember Jenkins..
Friday, July 10, 2020
Miss Trans Global International Digital Pageant Is Live!
I was asked back in May to be one of the panel of judges for the inaugural London based Miss Trans Global pageant.
One of the things y'all don't know about me, but probably should have guessed from my coverage of the Miss International Queen and mainstream cisgender ones like Miss USA and Miss Universe on this blog is that I love pageants, especially the trans ones.
And yeah, I have been honored to be asked to judge a few of them back in the day.
When Sahhara laid out her vision about Miss Trans Global, it spoke to me because I have always felt that the interview portion of pageants should be more heavily weighted in the scoring than talent,and evening gown.
I also loved the fact that it is a trans feminine conceived, led and run project, with the three member Miss Trans Global leadership team having pageant and show business experience..
Also important to me is that the scoring and judging system that has been set up for Miss Trans Global will be one that is fair and transparent for the contestants.
Transparency and fairness at times has been a challenging concept for many trans pageant systems including Miss International Queen.
But back to talking about my major beef with many trans pageants besides fair and impeccably scrupulous judging.
It does you no good as a pageant owner or organizer to have a gorgeous pageant queen who looks stunning in a gown, has talent, but has subpar oratory skills and is clueless as hell when it comes to current events going on outside of Pageant World .
A trans pageant contestant whether they like it or not, once they put on that sash and crown, is seen by elements of society as a representation of the trans community.
Heavily weighing the interview portion is something that occurs with the Mr and Miss Black Trans International pageant that happens during the week long Black Trans Advocacy Conference (BTAC).
The reason it happens is because in large part the BTIPS pageant winners become the spokespersons and faces of our org for the next year of their reign..
So what's Miss Trans Global? It is an international online pageant for trans and gender nonconforming people 18 and up from all backgrounds to raise awareness on transgender and LGB issues around the world. Most importantly to me, unlike the Thai based Miss International Queen one, Miss Trans Global has a diverse group of judges. .
So yes, a trans pageant queen needs to be more than a pretty face. She also needs to be a woman with substance. It's why I eagerly jumped at the chance when asked to be named to this year's international panel of judges for this inaugural Miss Trans Global pageant/.
The Miss Trans Global Pageant has 18 contestants from four continents, Africa, Asia, North and South America competing. The pageant is running online from July 1-30, with the crowning of the winner to take place on August 1.
You can not only check out the Miss Trans Global website, it is also on Facebook You Tube and Instagram.
You interested peeps also get a say on which one of our contestants makes it to our Top 15, semifinal and final rounds. For your vote to count,, you must like the Miss Trans Global Facebook page before choosing your fave contestants
So handle your business. Check out the contestants on your favorite social media platform and then vote for your faves.
Check out The Queen's Speech preliminary part of this pageant in which all the contestants submitted videos that discussed what they would do if they were honored with the Miss Trans Global crown.
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Looking forward to finding out along with all of you peeps worldwide who will be the inaugural winner of the Miss Trans Global virtual trans pageant.
You're also about to find out what I have known for years. Trans is not only beautiful, but we have some intelligent, classy and talented women in our ranks.,
One of the things y'all don't know about me, but probably should have guessed from my coverage of the Miss International Queen and mainstream cisgender ones like Miss USA and Miss Universe on this blog is that I love pageants, especially the trans ones.
And yeah, I have been honored to be asked to judge a few of them back in the day.
When Sahhara laid out her vision about Miss Trans Global, it spoke to me because I have always felt that the interview portion of pageants should be more heavily weighted in the scoring than talent,and evening gown.
I also loved the fact that it is a trans feminine conceived, led and run project, with the three member Miss Trans Global leadership team having pageant and show business experience..
Also important to me is that the scoring and judging system that has been set up for Miss Trans Global will be one that is fair and transparent for the contestants.
Transparency and fairness at times has been a challenging concept for many trans pageant systems including Miss International Queen.
But back to talking about my major beef with many trans pageants besides fair and impeccably scrupulous judging.
It does you no good as a pageant owner or organizer to have a gorgeous pageant queen who looks stunning in a gown, has talent, but has subpar oratory skills and is clueless as hell when it comes to current events going on outside of Pageant World .
A trans pageant contestant whether they like it or not, once they put on that sash and crown, is seen by elements of society as a representation of the trans community.
Heavily weighing the interview portion is something that occurs with the Mr and Miss Black Trans International pageant that happens during the week long Black Trans Advocacy Conference (BTAC).
The reason it happens is because in large part the BTIPS pageant winners become the spokespersons and faces of our org for the next year of their reign..
So what's Miss Trans Global? It is an international online pageant for trans and gender nonconforming people 18 and up from all backgrounds to raise awareness on transgender and LGB issues around the world. Most importantly to me, unlike the Thai based Miss International Queen one, Miss Trans Global has a diverse group of judges. .
So yes, a trans pageant queen needs to be more than a pretty face. She also needs to be a woman with substance. It's why I eagerly jumped at the chance when asked to be named to this year's international panel of judges for this inaugural Miss Trans Global pageant/.
The Miss Trans Global Pageant has 18 contestants from four continents, Africa, Asia, North and South America competing. The pageant is running online from July 1-30, with the crowning of the winner to take place on August 1.
You can not only check out the Miss Trans Global website, it is also on Facebook You Tube and Instagram.
You interested peeps also get a say on which one of our contestants makes it to our Top 15, semifinal and final rounds. For your vote to count,, you must like the Miss Trans Global Facebook page before choosing your fave contestants
So handle your business. Check out the contestants on your favorite social media platform and then vote for your faves.
Check out The Queen's Speech preliminary part of this pageant in which all the contestants submitted videos that discussed what they would do if they were honored with the Miss Trans Global crown.
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Looking forward to finding out along with all of you peeps worldwide who will be the inaugural winner of the Miss Trans Global virtual trans pageant.
You're also about to find out what I have known for years. Trans is not only beautiful, but we have some intelligent, classy and talented women in our ranks.,
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Wednesday, July 08, 2020
Still Love And Miss You, Renee
I'm a little down today because I just realized that my north of the border homegirl Renee Martin has been gone for a year as of today.
And while I know that she is with the ancestors and is no longer suffering from the cancer that took her life (Eff Cancer), deep down I wish she'd had a little more time to be on this plane of existence with us. I still have her number programmed in my phone because I can't bring myself to the point of deleting it.
The last time I talked to Dawn Wilson, we both talked about how much we missed Renee.
There are days that when I hear of some political shadiness going down in Alberta, I can hear her saying in a voice dripping with disdain "that wretched province'. She wasn't a fan of Doug Ford either, and the last time I had a long conversation with her last March we spent a good ten to fifteen minutes dragging Trump and being concerned about my safety as the anti-trans violence on this side of the border hit epidemic levels. .
I miss those long conversations we had about every subject under the sun from politics to womanism to Olympic women's hockey. I miss her talking about the travails of being the only feminine life form in a house filled with masculine ones.
I even miss the phone call and the good natured trash talking that would would come from her whenever the Canadian women's hockey team beat the US women.
And yes, we've had multiple conversations about racism, Canadian style, fauxgressives. and white feminist fails.
I can only imagine what she'd say if she were still here instead of resting in power. We'd have a lot to talk about in terms of how Orange Foolius has taken us from superpower to banana republic in three years. Last year's Canadian national elections and the NDP. How her boys are not so little any more.
There would also be additional barbs directed at the Republican misleadership of my beloved home state she called Baja Alberta
She wasn't a fan of the TERFs, so I imagine that she'd be dragging JK Rowling and the rest of the TERFKarens almost as hard as I have been.
She also would have been hilariously commenting about how Melania was making goo goo eyes at Prime Minister Justin Trudeau.
And I know she was just as proud of my elevated national media profile as I was proud of her for her multiple published op-eds in The Guardian and speaking before the St Catharines City Council.
Before she passed she was working on getting me north of the border to speak at an International Women's Day event in the St Catharines area.
This is going to be a rough day to get through. It also comes just two days before her July 11 birthday.
Still love and miss you, Renee.
And while I know that she is with the ancestors and is no longer suffering from the cancer that took her life (Eff Cancer), deep down I wish she'd had a little more time to be on this plane of existence with us. I still have her number programmed in my phone because I can't bring myself to the point of deleting it.
The last time I talked to Dawn Wilson, we both talked about how much we missed Renee.
There are days that when I hear of some political shadiness going down in Alberta, I can hear her saying in a voice dripping with disdain "that wretched province'. She wasn't a fan of Doug Ford either, and the last time I had a long conversation with her last March we spent a good ten to fifteen minutes dragging Trump and being concerned about my safety as the anti-trans violence on this side of the border hit epidemic levels. .
I miss those long conversations we had about every subject under the sun from politics to womanism to Olympic women's hockey. I miss her talking about the travails of being the only feminine life form in a house filled with masculine ones.
I even miss the phone call and the good natured trash talking that would would come from her whenever the Canadian women's hockey team beat the US women.
And yes, we've had multiple conversations about racism, Canadian style, fauxgressives. and white feminist fails.
I can only imagine what she'd say if she were still here instead of resting in power. We'd have a lot to talk about in terms of how Orange Foolius has taken us from superpower to banana republic in three years. Last year's Canadian national elections and the NDP. How her boys are not so little any more.
There would also be additional barbs directed at the Republican misleadership of my beloved home state she called Baja Alberta
She wasn't a fan of the TERFs, so I imagine that she'd be dragging JK Rowling and the rest of the TERFKarens almost as hard as I have been.
She also would have been hilariously commenting about how Melania was making goo goo eyes at Prime Minister Justin Trudeau.
And I know she was just as proud of my elevated national media profile as I was proud of her for her multiple published op-eds in The Guardian and speaking before the St Catharines City Council.
Before she passed she was working on getting me north of the border to speak at an International Women's Day event in the St Catharines area.
This is going to be a rough day to get through. It also comes just two days before her July 11 birthday.
Still love and miss you, Renee.
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Leonie Dorado Becomes Bolivia's First Out Trans Television Host
I like to remind our baby trans and seasoned trans peeps that when you come out as trans, your family expands, not contracts. You gain siblings not only here in the US, but around the world.
It's because of that when trans persons are making history elsewhere, it's something that we celebrate around the world.
Meet 26 year old Leonie Dorado. She thought she'd be pursuing a career in music as a singer and piano player, and is currently working on a degree in modern music at Bolivia's National Conservatory of Music.
But sometimes life throws you curveballs that you didn't expect. For Leonie, that was an offer to get into journalist and co-host the Aby Ayala TV television program. She jumped at the chance to do so, and in the process, has become the first openly trans person on television in Bolivia's history.
She wants to use her television platform to educate her viewers about the issues she and other TBLGQ+ people experience there, and judging by this comment, she's off to a great start. .
"The LGBT community is a group of millions of people who demand human rights, labor rights, rights to have their lives respected. This is what has moved me to be part of the project," said Dorado.
She also said this in a message to her Facebook followers during Pride Month.
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It's because of that when trans persons are making history elsewhere, it's something that we celebrate around the world.
Meet 26 year old Leonie Dorado. She thought she'd be pursuing a career in music as a singer and piano player, and is currently working on a degree in modern music at Bolivia's National Conservatory of Music.
But sometimes life throws you curveballs that you didn't expect. For Leonie, that was an offer to get into journalist and co-host the Aby Ayala TV television program. She jumped at the chance to do so, and in the process, has become the first openly trans person on television in Bolivia's history.
She wants to use her television platform to educate her viewers about the issues she and other TBLGQ+ people experience there, and judging by this comment, she's off to a great start. .
"The LGBT community is a group of millions of people who demand human rights, labor rights, rights to have their lives respected. This is what has moved me to be part of the project," said Dorado.
She also said this in a message to her Facebook followers during Pride Month.
"It's exciting to live on a day like today, which since 1969 marked the beginning of the liberation movement calling for progress in government policies and decisions on human rights," she wrote. "The most relevant thing in my life is not the fact that I am trans, I consider it to be one of the least important things about me. Let's bet to strive to develop our capabilities to be brilliant in what we decide to dedicate ourselves, to bet on our dreams and go for them, to appreciate the best in others, to leave a world something better knowing that at least one life has been encouraged more freely thanks to ours."Congrats on the new journalism gig, Leonie. Think you're going to be great at it.
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Three Trans Peeps Running To Become Vermont Legislators
There are currently just 27 trans people across the United States who are elected public officials.
Four of them, VA Del Danica Roem, CO Rep Brianna Titone, and NH Reps Lisa Bunker and Gerri Cannon are state reps. Roem made the history back in 2018 of being the first trans rep to be reelected to office. Titone, the first out trans state rep elected west of the Mississippi River, is trying to replicate in Colorado what Roem accomplished and get reelected o her seat
Titone faces the woman she beat by 439 votes, Vicki Pyne in a general election rematch.
In Delaware, Sarah McBride is making what she hopes will be a historic run for a state senate seat.
She does have a Democratic primary opponent, and will need to clear that hurdle before getting to the general election. If she is successful, she will become the first out trans person ever elected to a state senate seat in the US.
And yes, have to shout out Minneapolis councilmembers Andrea Jenkins and Phillipe Cunningham for being elected and serving together on the Minneapolis City Council. It is a legislative body that in the wake of the George Floyd murder by cop, is getting more national attention lately for what they have decided to do what the council voted to do with their out of control police department.
Councilmembers Jenkins and Cunningham are n addition to being the first out African American trans people elected to any office and the first elected since Althea Garrison in 1990, are the first trans people ever elected to a large metro city council of over 250K population.
All of that to say that seeing trans people getting elected to office has not only motivated people to think about running for office at all levels of government (yeah I'm seriously considering it) , to actually handling their business and doing it.
In Vermont, three people inspired by Christine Hallquist's 2018 run for governor are stepping up to run in the August Democratic primaries for state rep in their local communities. If they successfully get out of the primary elections and win in the general, they would become the first out trans folks elected as state legislators in Vermont.
In case you're wondering, the 150 seat Vermont House of Representatives chamber as of this writing has had a Democratic majority since 2004. It currently stands at 95-43, with seven seats held by the Vermont Progressive Party and five more by independents
Taylor Small of Winooski, is the health and wellness director of the Pride Center of Vermont. She is running against incumbent Chittenden 6-7 rep Hal Coston and Jordan Matte in the Dem primary. Small is focusing her campaign on public health and affordable housing
Ember Quinn is a substitute teacher running in Milton against Emily Hecker in the Democratic primary for the Chittenden 10 seat. It has a Republican incumbent .Quinn's campaign focus is economic equity and LGBTQ education in public schools
Manchester business owner Jamie Dufour is taking on incumbent Kathleen James and Seth Bongartz for the Bennington 4 seat, and is focusing her on uplifting small business owners like herself.
While each of them would love to make that history, they stated they are in this race to help their potential constituents. They are all proud trans women, but want voters to focus on the policy and not their trans status.
I hope that all of them win their primaries and the general on November 3 and they get to make that history. I would love to see them taking the oath of office when the Vermont House convenes in 2021.
Saturday, July 04, 2020
I Am America
I met her during a BTAC a few years ago, and was delighted to hear her song 'American Pie' a few years ago,
Here's Shea Diamond again with her latest video 'I Am America'. I'm playing it on the 4th of July because frankly, some of y'all need the effing reminder that trans and gender non conforming peeps exist, and we too, by dint of being born in the US, are American citizens who deserve all the human rights afforded to us under the US Constitution.
Enjoy her latest song, and Happy Independence Day!
Here's Shea Diamond again with her latest video 'I Am America'. I'm playing it on the 4th of July because frankly, some of y'all need the effing reminder that trans and gender non conforming peeps exist, and we too, by dint of being born in the US, are American citizens who deserve all the human rights afforded to us under the US Constitution.
Enjoy her latest song, and Happy Independence Day!
Sunday, June 28, 2020
TransGriot Texas Democratic Party Runoff Endorsement Post
The Texas runoff elections that were scheduled for May were delayed due to the COVID-19 outbreak, but we still have the important task of selecting who will make it to the November 3 ballot.
Early voting for the July 14 runoff election starts tomorrow June 29 and runs through July 10, so that means it's time for moi to do the endorsement post for the upcoming primary
I've been made aware by several people in our local trans community that they use my endorsement posts as a guide to help them decide who will get their precious votes when they step in the booth to cast their ballots.
No pressure. These endorsements are made with the thought in mind on what candidate will be the best for our state, our country, and for advancing the human rights of the trans community.
I looked at the endorsements of various groups like the Houston GLBT Caucus, H-BAD, Stonewall Dems in various cities just to name a few. I talked to trans folks who pay attention to politics in various Texas cities to come up with these endorsements.
Like I said, I take this seriously.
For you Republicans who ask me why I don't do them for the Texas Republican primary, it's because your party has made it clear they wish to oppress trans people and you hate Black lives
And before you open your mouths to protest, check your party platform and the anti-trans planks it has in it.
Just like the March primary, if you are a resident of Harris County you can vote at any election center within the boundaries of our county. That's also the case in the other 253 counties in this state.
If you need to check to see if you are registered to vote in this runoff election , you can check your registration or register to vote at this link.
You have until October 5 to register for the 2020 Presidential election taking place on November 3. So if you aren't registered for this primary runoff one, you have time to bust a move and handle your electoral business so that you can cast you ballots from POTUS to dog catcher on November 3 .
And now, the 2020 Texas Democratic Primary Runoff Election Endorsements!
US Senate
Royce West
US House
District 3- Lulu Seikaly
District 10- Mike Siegel
District 13- Greg Sagan
District 17- David Anthony Jaramillo
District 24- Candace Valenzuela
District 31- Donna Imam
Texas Railroad Commissioner
Chrysta Castaneda
Texas State Board Of Education
District 6- Michelle Palmer
Texas SenateDistrict 19- Roland Gutierrez
District 27- Sara Stapleton Barrera
Texas House
District 26- L Sarah DeMerchant
District 67- No Endorsement
District 100- Jasmine Crockett
District 119- Jennifer Ramos
District 138- Akilah Bacy
District 142- Jerry Davis
District 148- Penny Morales Shaw
Justice 14th Court of Appeals
Place 7- Cheri Thomas
District Judge
164th Judicial District - Cheryl Elliott Thornton
339th Judicial District- Te'iva Bell
505th Judicial District- Surendran Patel
Harris County Commissioner
Precinct 3- Diana Martinez Alexander
Harris County Constable
Precinct 2- Jerry Garcia
Precinct 5- Mark Alan Harrison
Fort Bend County Commissioner
Precinct 1- Jennifer Cantu
Early voting for the July 14 runoff election starts tomorrow June 29 and runs through July 10, so that means it's time for moi to do the endorsement post for the upcoming primary
I've been made aware by several people in our local trans community that they use my endorsement posts as a guide to help them decide who will get their precious votes when they step in the booth to cast their ballots.
No pressure. These endorsements are made with the thought in mind on what candidate will be the best for our state, our country, and for advancing the human rights of the trans community.
I looked at the endorsements of various groups like the Houston GLBT Caucus, H-BAD, Stonewall Dems in various cities just to name a few. I talked to trans folks who pay attention to politics in various Texas cities to come up with these endorsements.
Like I said, I take this seriously.
For you Republicans who ask me why I don't do them for the Texas Republican primary, it's because your party has made it clear they wish to oppress trans people and you hate Black lives
And before you open your mouths to protest, check your party platform and the anti-trans planks it has in it.
Just like the March primary, if you are a resident of Harris County you can vote at any election center within the boundaries of our county. That's also the case in the other 253 counties in this state.
If you need to check to see if you are registered to vote in this runoff election , you can check your registration or register to vote at this link.
You have until October 5 to register for the 2020 Presidential election taking place on November 3. So if you aren't registered for this primary runoff one, you have time to bust a move and handle your electoral business so that you can cast you ballots from POTUS to dog catcher on November 3 .
And now, the 2020 Texas Democratic Primary Runoff Election Endorsements!
US Senate
Royce West
US House
District 3- Lulu Seikaly
District 10- Mike Siegel
District 13- Greg Sagan
District 17- David Anthony Jaramillo
District 24- Candace Valenzuela
District 31- Donna Imam
Texas Railroad Commissioner
Chrysta Castaneda
Texas State Board Of Education
District 6- Michelle Palmer
Texas SenateDistrict 19- Roland Gutierrez
District 27- Sara Stapleton Barrera
Texas House
District 26- L Sarah DeMerchant
District 67- No Endorsement
District 100- Jasmine Crockett
District 119- Jennifer Ramos
District 138- Akilah Bacy
District 142- Jerry Davis
District 148- Penny Morales Shaw
Justice 14th Court of Appeals
Place 7- Cheri Thomas
District Judge
164th Judicial District - Cheryl Elliott Thornton
339th Judicial District- Te'iva Bell
505th Judicial District- Surendran Patel
Harris County Commissioner
Precinct 3- Diana Martinez Alexander
Harris County Constable
Precinct 2- Jerry Garcia
Precinct 5- Mark Alan Harrison
Fort Bend County Commissioner
Precinct 1- Jennifer Cantu
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Saturday, June 27, 2020
Courting Nikki
She's been with the ancestors for the last seven months and her 44 year life was way too short for all of us who loved her, but Nikki Araguz Loyd will never be forgotten by me or anyone in our community.
She will also not be forgotten for her ginormous contribution to trans rights for us trans Texans. It was her tenacious and ultimately successful six year legal fight in the Delgado v Araguz case that secured marriage rights for us here in the Lone Star State.
Courting Nikki is a short documentary by Cressandra Thibodeaux that follows Nikki through this case. It also brought back some memories for me of that time and the amazing complex woman I was blessed to call my friend.
This documentary video was shown at Nikki's memorial service
She will also not be forgotten for her ginormous contribution to trans rights for us trans Texans. It was her tenacious and ultimately successful six year legal fight in the Delgado v Araguz case that secured marriage rights for us here in the Lone Star State.
Courting Nikki is a short documentary by Cressandra Thibodeaux that follows Nikki through this case. It also brought back some memories for me of that time and the amazing complex woman I was blessed to call my friend.
This documentary video was shown at Nikki's memorial service
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