Here we fracking go again. This time this all too familiar situation shifts to Orlando, FL
30 year old Ashley Sinclair was found shot to death early this morning in a wooded area on Rio Grande Drive just off S. Orange Blossom Trail in Orange County. Police responded to neighbors calling 911 at 6 AM EDT reporting shots fired in the 1600 block of Nimrod Lane.
A neighbor said they saw a black sedan pull up and then heard four shots fired.
“I look out my window. I see black car here. Then I hear ‘boom, boom, boom.’ Four,” said neighbor Ramon. Deputies searched the woods and knocked on doors to get any information.
“This is an obvious victim of a homicide. They have been out canvassing the area to see if they’ve seen anything. They do have the victim identified, but have not notified the next of kin yet,” said Jeff Williamson with the Orange County Sheriff’s Office.
Anyone with information regarding this homicide investigation that will lead to the capture and conviction of the wastes of DNA who did this is urged to call CrimeLine at 800-423-TIPS (8477).
Now that we got that business out of the way regarding another fallen trans sister and hopefully gotten the process started toward bringing the people who killed her to justice, let me start calling out the misgendering of another African-American transwoman by the media. But before I go off, let's review the AP Stylebook guidelines for reporting on trans people shall we?
Transgender: Use the pronoun preferred by the individuals who have acquired the physical characteristics of the opposite sex or present themselves in a way that does not correspond with their sex at birth.I can't tell you how many posts I've written on this blog about media outlets all over the country REPEATEDLY failing to grasp what is so simple a concept to follow that even this humble blogger gets something Amanda Evans and the award winning journalists at News13 in the Orlando, FL area didn't
If that preference is not expressed, use the pronoun consistent with the way the individuals live publicly.
Take a look at the photo the family provided of Ashley. She is not a 'transgender man' as you reported, Amanda. A transgender man is someone who was born in a female body like yours and whose gender identity and gender presentation to the world is male.
Ashley is a transgender female.
And I'm pissed off not only because once again another one of my trans sisters is gone from this Earth too soon, I'm pissed off because she was misgendered in this report. I'm also angry because I've seen this crap happen with African-American (and Latina) girls like us far too often in the media.
Now lets see how long it's going to take for your award winning website to correct this misgendering of Ashley Sinclair.







One of the subjects that I talked with Jahaira at length about yesterday was the need to recognize that #girlslikeus also includes the crossdressers who have the gender epiphany, start making the move toward the transitioned full time end of the spectrum but the girls in the pageant and ballroom community.
For example, if you are a young person competing n the Fem Queen Realness category in which you must be as close to feminine perfection as possible in the judges minds, you get 10's across the board from them, and get affirmation and love from the ballroom patrons and the competitors from other houses, you begin to build up the confidence that you can actually become the woman of your dreams and successfully interact with the world outside the ballroom community.
There are proud girls like us in the both the pageant and ballroom community who have
donated their time, talents and efforts to combat the spread of HIV/AIDS
in not only their respective circles, but the African-American community
as well.
“It is not true to suggest that any person or organization was
told their flag was less important than another – this did not occur and
no HRC staff member would ever tolerate such behavior. To be clear, it
is the position of the Human Rights Campaign that marriage is an issue
that affects everyone in the LGBT community. Michael Cole-Schwartz HRC Communications Director 



