Tuesday, September 08, 2009

Prodigal Sons

This is a documentary by Kimberly Reed as she returns to her Montana home town for her 20th high school reunion.

There's been a few changes since she left, starting with her. In addition to being nervous about reuniting with her classmates, she's also hoping to reconcile with her estranged adopted brother.

There are also some interesting twists and turns along the way as the film unfolds along with some revealed family heritage secrets.

Prodigal Sons has been getting some buzz in the transgender web, and has been screed at several film festivals with positive reviews.

I'm planning on checking it out as soon as it hits a theater or film festival near me.

In the meantime, enjoy the interview

Monday, September 07, 2009

Introducing Dyssonance

If you're a regular visitor to Pam's House Blend or The Bilerico Project, you are probably familiar with her insightful commentary on these two blogs.

I had the pleasure of meeting her during the recently lobby day I attended in Washington D.C. and had some interesting and thought provoking conversations with her.

I'm happy to see Toni add her voice to the transpeeps in the blogosphere speaking truth to power and tellin' it like it T-I-S is.

So check out her blog Dyssonance.,

But warning to the wise, don't check your brain at the door.

Big Sis Falls To Clijsters-Little Sis Advances

Break out the Hateraid.

The myriad haters of all things Williams sisters are gleefully munching on Hater Tots after 2005 US Open champ Kim Clijsters of Belgium upset third seeded Big Sis 0-6,6-0, 4-6.

It ends Venus' run on the singles side of the 2009 US Open, but she and Little Sis are still alive in their quest to capture their first US Open women's doubles tournament title since 1999.

Meanwhile Williams family honor falls to Little Sis once again.

The defending US Open champ is in the quarterfinal round after beating down Daniela Hantuchova 6-2, 6-0. She took the last 10 games to close out the match.

With Dinara Safina getting beat (again) Serena is now the highest ranked player left on the women's side.

Little Sis is on a roll right now, but she still has some work to do before she can match Big Sis as a repeat US Open champion.

Sunday, September 06, 2009

Vogue Evolution Eliminated

Well, just as I started getting interested in America's Best Dance Crew, the major reason I was watching it disappeared tonight.

The Vogue Evolution crew, the GLBT team of dancers from the New York ballroom community ended up in the bottom two due to lack of voter support and faced a dance off.

Unfortunately, they didn't survive it and were eliminated by the judges.

As you stated Leiomy, this is probably not the last we'll see of Vogue Evolution. Y'all definitely have talent that we'll see again someday.

But I'm extremely proud of Leiomy and the entire crew for 'representing' the LGBT community well. I wish you could have gone on to win the big prize, but that was not to be.

Alright Coogs!

Had to give my fave college football team a shoutout as they opened up their 2009 season last night with a 55-7 beatdown of Northwestern State.

Quarterback Case Keenum was 23-30 for 359 years as my Coogs won their season opener for the second straight year under coach Kevin Sumlin.

The competition gets a little stiffer as the Cougars head to Stillwater, OK and a September 12 date with the Top 5 ranked Oklahoma State Cowboys.

They just missed making it to the C-USA-title game for the second time in three seasons, but i was happy he finally broke that bowl game jinx.

Best of luck Coogs for a successful season.

Williams Sisters Become NFL Owners

Serena and Venus Williams have been rewriting the tennis history books ever since their breakthrough Gland Slam victory ten years ago at the 1999 US Open.

My favorite tennis playing siblings are marching though the 2009 US Open field in the women's singles and women's doubles ranks seeking to add to the combined 18 Grand Slam titles they've already captured during their careers.

Not being content with making tennis history, last week they did so on another front. Principal owner and Managing General Partner Stephen Ross announced that the Palm Beach Gardens, FL residents have joined Gloria and Emilio Estefan, Marc Anthony and Jennifer Lopez in becoming limited ownership partners in the NFL's Miami Dolphins.

The purchase of that ownership stake made the Williams sisters the first African-American women to have an ownership stake in an NFL franchise.

"I am so excited to be part of such a renowned organization," says Serena. "Having spent so much of my childhood in the area, being involved with a staple of Miami culture is a huge honor. We look forward to many championships and much success together with the Miami Dolphins."

Agrees Venus, "I am honored to be a partner in the Miami Dolphins franchise and thankful to owner Stephen Ross for allowing Serena and I to be part of Miami Dolphins history."

Looks like the Williams sisters will definitely be ready for some football when the NFL season kicks off next week.

Crossposted from Feministe

Happy Birthday, Your Excellency!


Y'all know I have mad love for the Right Honourable Michaelle Jean, the current governor general of Canada.

Well, today is the Governor General's birthday. She was born in Port au Prince , Haiti on this date in 1957.

Happy birthday, Your Excellency and may you have many more.

I Like Meat, I Eat Meat!

Since it's a holiday weekend here in the States, it has me thinking about home and weekends past while I'm enjoying the smorgasbord of college football that been on the tube.

It's Labor Day weekend here, and one of the things we Texans absolutely love doing on a regular basis besides watch football is chow down on barbecue.

Whether it's done over a barbecue pit at home, a friends house or we're dining out at our favorite barbecue place, we consume a lot of beef in the Lone Star State.

My love of beef and other meats such as chicken and fish sometimes brings me into conflict with my vegan friends. While I love hanging out with them and respect their choices they've made for their lives, they also as a condition of having me in their lives as a friend have to deal with my choices as well.

I chow down on burgers, ribs or brisket. I love scarfing down some chicken and enjoy eating seafood.

I'm a Texan who likes meat and I'm not planning on giving it up anytime soon.

Williams Sisters March To US Open Fourth Round

Serena and Venus Williams continue to kick butt and take names enroute to a potential semifinals matchup at the 2009 US Open.

Big Sis knocked off Magdalena Rybarikov 6-2, 7-5 to advance to her fourth round matchup with 2005 US Open champ Kim Clijsters. Clijsters is back on the tour after a two year maternity leave and looks like she's ready to pick up where she left off. She will provide a formidable test for Big Sis, who is still battling that sore knee.

Little Sis beat Spaniard Maria Jose Martinez Sanchez 6-3, 7-5 to advance to the fourth round. If the name sounds familiar to you, it's because they were involved in some serious drama the last time they met at the French Open.

During the third round of The French Open, Sanchez's serve and volley game pushed Little Sis to three sets before she prevailed. She was also incensed about a first set no call in which a ball Serena struck hit Sanchez on the arm and cleared the net.

During the post match press conference Little Sis called her opponent a 'cheat' because she didn't say anything when she clearly hit a shot over the net with her arm, in violation of the rules.

Ah, revenge is a dish best served cold.

Saturday, September 05, 2009

2009 Amazing Philippine Beauties Promo Video

One of the transgender beauty pageants that has quickly garnered international attention in just six short years is about to crank up its 2009 edition.

The Amazing Philippine Beauties Pageant has lived up to its name in terms of the amazing way it has grown and captured the imagination and attention of the world.



It has grown from an event just looking for beautiful transpinays for its Amazing Philippines Cabaret Show to an international media attention grabbing pageant in its own right.

It's going to interesting to find out what lucky transpinay gets crowned by 2008 queen Angelika Santillan as her successor.

What A Difference A Year Makes

Back in May 2008 I wrote a TransGriot post entitled 'Destruction of the Black Transwoman Image.'

In that post I pointed out that transwomen have some of the same problems as our cisgender sisters when it comes to Black womanhood. I also lamented in that post the lack of positive trans role models of African descent.

Just three months after I wrote that, things started to change.

During the month of August 2008 we had Isis King become the first open transgender contestant on America's Next Top Model's Cycle 11. At the same time Laverne Cox was making her GLAAD media award winning appearance on I Want To Work For Diddy.

During the historic Democratic National Convention later that month we had 2002 IFGE Trinity Award winner Dr. Marisa Richmond make a little history of her own. She become the first African descended transperson to be elected as a delegate to a major party political convention.

The documentary movie Still Black A Portrait of Black Transmen gave my African descended transbrothers some long needed and deserved attention and love. Nick Mwaluko's story published in the Huffington Post added to the visibility of African descended transpeople.

Nick's story, along with Nigeria's Mia Nikasimo and the stories of brave continental African trans activists such as Uganda's Victor Juliet Mukasa drove home the point that there are transpeople on the second largest continent on planet Earth.

And oh yeah, there was some African-American trans blogger from Texas who was a finalist in last year's Weblog Awards for Best LGBT Blog.

The image problems that Black transpeople have had go back to 1953. Ever since Christine Jorgenson stepped off the plane from Denmark, whatever media attention that transpeople have garnered in the last 50 plus years was disproportionately focused on my white transsisters.

Coverage of Black transpeople was relegated to intermittent articles or small blurbs in our iconic EBONY and JET magazines. It took this Justina Williams article in the November 1, 1979 issue of JET before I read an article about a transperson that shared my ethnic heritage.

It drove home the point that being trans wasn't a 'white thang' and that was sorely needed. During the time I was growing up, transpeople went stealth after surgery. That resulted in me not having 'out and proud' Black role models to pattern myself after.

Our transitions are different from our white transsisters, and because of those stealth conditions imposed by back in the day helping professionals, I and my sisters were denied the opportunity to learn our history or ask our trans elders for transition advice specific to Black transpeople..

Paris Is Burning was released in theaters just as I was beginning my transition. I've always wanted to meet Octavia St. Laurent and tell her how much of an inspiration she was to me.

Unfortunately, since she recently passed away, I won't get the opportunity to do so.

What a difference a year makes. Now it seems that we have more Black transwomen and other transpeople of color stepping out there, positively living their lives and proudly talking about it.

I'm looking forward to the day when we have Black transwomen running for public office as Kim Coco Iwamoto successfully did in Hawaii.

And yes, I'm rooting for Vogue Evolution and my sis Leyomi Maldonado to win the grand prize on America's Best Dance Crew.

I would like to see a Black transwoman character in the movies or on television similar to Ugly Betty's Alexis Meade.

I want nothing less than for African descended transwomen to not be tragically thought of in context with the Remembering Our Dead List that far too many of us are on.

Like 'errbody' else, I'd rather Black transpeople be judged by the quality people we produce, not lies, pseudo-science, centuries old myths and transphobic ignorance.


crossposted from Feministe

Friday, September 04, 2009

You're Going Back To School

TransGriot Note: Here's another one of my song rewrites. It's dedicated to my Canadian homegirl and all the parents of kids who think this is the most wonderful time of the year and not Christmas.





Sung to the tune of 'Going To See The King' by Andrae Crouch


Soon and very soon
You are going back to school

Soon and very soon
You are going back to school

Soon and very soon
You are going back to school

Hallelujah, hallelujah,
You're going back to school

No more cryin there,
You are going back to school

No more cryin there,
You are going back to school

No more cryin there,
You are going back to school

Hallelujah, hallelujah,
You're going back to school

[Bridge:]
Another day off the calendar we can cross
Another day closer to peace of mind
Shopping for the school clothes that you'll need
Give us strength till that blessed day arrives.

(Speaking)
Time to get that education...Time to learn how to sign your name...So get washed up kids and go to bed...Because tomorrow is your first school day...So you'll have a better life than we did, we scrimp save and sacrifice...It's back to school time..sweet dreams..soon and very soon.

[Chorus]
Soon and very soon
You are going back to school

Soon and very soon
You are going back to school

Soon and very soon
You are going back to school

Hallelujah, hallelujah,
You're going back to school

No more cryin there,
You are going back to school

No more cryin there,
You are going back to school

No more cryin there,
You are going back to school

Hallelujah, hallelujah,
You're going back to school

Another day off the calendar we can cross
Another day closer to peace of mind
Shopping for the school stuff that you'll need
Give us strength till that blessed day arrives.

[Ending:]
Hallelujah
Halleljuah
You're going back to school!

Why You Tripping About What I Said?

I've been involved in online discourse for over ten years now.

It never fails that when I or any Black person, be they gay, straight or trans, posts ANY commentary that critiques how whiteness insidiously operates in our communities and beyond, calls out a white person operating in a racist way, or points out that race relations aren't as 'post-racial' as people claim they are the usual predictable stuff happens.

*We're called 'angry','emotional' or whatever euphemism du jour is used to personally attack the writer.
*There is a demand for dissertation level evidence or statistics to back up whatever we said in our commentary.
*We have our commentary nitpicked for perceived 'flaws'.
*Whatever we said in the post is dismissed, belittled or labeled 'anecdotal'
*We're accused of being racist.
*Our post is accused of being 'counterproductive' to the issue we're bringing up.


So why are you tripping about what I said? Is it because deep down, you have exhibited the behaviors at one time or another that I'm talking about in the critique and it's making you uncomfortable?

Or is it because you wish to deny the mountains of evidence that racism is still a problem in our so called post-racial society?

The point is, I have four decades of experience living on this planet. I've been exposed to racism and its effects, observed its impact on my people throughout our history, and had long conversations on an almost daily basis with other African descended people from across the Diaspora about it.

Whites don't have that life experience. So how can you tell me as an African-American or presume to have the authority to tell me what is and ISN'T racist?

Why is anger a legitimate emotion for white people in discourse, but not for Blacks or other people of color?

Why is any critique by a white writer on an issue not greeted with the same shifting goalposts of 'proof' that you require of us?

Why is it that whites can freely criticize my community, but Blacks aren't allowed to do the same without a hostile or angry reaction to it?

Why is it that when white people who make controversial statements that are later proven blatantly false ignore demands from the Black community to apologize for them, but ANY controversial statements that are penned by a Black or POC writer are immediately followed with demands to apologize for them by the White community?

Explain that to me.

September 2009 Villager's Black Blog Rankings

Many people are spending this Labor Day holiday weekend firing up their grills and getting their last shots in at summer fun before the weather starts turning cooler and colder.

Well, hot on the heels of the August BBR rankings he just revealed is this month's edition of the highly anticipated and increasingly prestigious event in the Afrosphere.

Villager made some adjustments to the BBR's that resulted in a 19 blog dip in the number of ranked blogs. There were 1747 blogs ranked this month as opposed to the 1766 blogs ranked last month.

Villager has instituted a new policy in which any blog not updated in 120 days gets sent to the bottom of the BBR list.

One that will never be at the bottom of the BBR's is Pam's House Blend. For the 15th consecutive month, it's the BBR Number One ranked blog.

Renee at Womanist Musings finally reached her goal of cracking the BBR Top 5. Congratulations my Timmy's icecap sippin' sister, you're BBR number 5.

For the rest of the Top Ten and Top 25 BBR blogs, check out his post at Electronic Villager. Here's the September 2009 BBR list.

So did I hang on to my BBR Top 25 ranking? Well, yes and no.

As of the September 1st compilation date I'm tied with Crunk & Disorderly with a 94 Technorati ranking. But due to the BBR tiebreakers I slipped two spots from BBR number 24 to BBR Number 26.

The BBR's are set up where there are no ties. According to our illustrious BBR compiler:

If a blogger's authority number drops ... they are placed at the TOP of the grouping of blogs at the new rating.

If a blogger's authority number rises ... they are placed at the BOTTOM of the grouping of blogs at the new rating.

If a new blogger is added to the BBR ... they are placed at the BOTTOM of the grouping of blogs at the rating found for them when they join the list.

If a blogger is no longer being rated (either link unknown or authority rating is > 120 days) then they are placed in alpha order in that portion of the BBR.


If it seems like I'm angry about it, yeah I am.

I've worked hard to build and put together a quality blog that a cross section of people would find interesting, entertaining and informative. I've used the BBR's as one of my measuring sticks to grow TransGriot.

To be bumped out of the BBR Top 25 on a tiebreaker sucks.

All it's done is to piss me off and motivate me to set a new goal. I want to grow TransGriot to a point where I will NEVER be bumped from the BBR Top 25 again.

Thursday, September 03, 2009

Shut Up Fool! Awards-Labor Day Weekend Edition

It's Labor Day weekend!

Depending on where you live, we're getting the last of our summer fun in before heading into another school year (or the kids are already back in school) and the cooler fall weather sets in.

It's also the weekend that the Miss Continental Pageant takes place in Chitown.

2008-2009 Miss Continental Tulsi will be crowing her 2009-2010 successor at the Park West Theater.

Hopefully there will be less drama than there was at Miss USA this year.

But changing seasons, exciting transgender pageants and fun filled holiday weekends provide us no respite from our ongoing mission of rooting out and exposing the fools in our midst.

Thanks to Renee at Womanist Musings, we have our winner this week for our illustrious award. This fool beat out perennial contenders Glenn Beck, Rush Limbaugh, the Republican party, Faux News,.Bill O'Reilly and his own whacked out pastor Steven Anderson.

Say hello to our landslide winner this week, Chris Broughton.

The same Oreo-cookie chomping negro that brought an AR-15 rifle to an Obama town hall meeting now has openly concurred with his white nutcase pastor Steven Anderson's August 16 sermon praying for the first African-American president's death.

Broughton said of Anderson's controversial August 16 "Why I Hate Barack Obama" sermon: "I concur, I think we'd be better off if God would send [Obama] where he's going now instead of later. [Obama] is destroying our country."


Wouldn't be surprised if Faux News or right wing talk radio hired his unemployed ass ASAP to parrot their anti-Obama talking points.

Take this negro's Black Like Me card away and cut it up. Fire up the DROP Squad and send this confused soul to them for a beat down and an intensive training course in Black history.

And give the honorary white man some Oreo's while you're at it.

Chris Broughton, shut the hell up, fool!

Little Sis Moves On To US Open Third Round

Unlike Big Sis, who had problems in her first round match, Little Sis Serena Williams has breezed through her opening round women's singles matches at the 2009 US Open.

The defending champ began her quest to repeat at Flushing Meadows by beating Alexa Glatch 6-4, 6-1 in her opening round match at Arthur Ashe Stadium. Last night she needed only 53 minutes to overwhelm Hungary's Melinda Czink 6-1, 6-1.

Big Sis did join her in the third round by beating fellow American Bethanie Mattek-Sands in straight sets 6-4, 6-2. They play their opening round doubles match today versus Julia Goerges and Arantxa Parra Santonja.

They are not only seeking their first US Open doubles title since 1999, they're trying to add this title to the Wimbledon and Australian Open doubles championships they've already claimed this year.

Serena is seeking her 12th Grand Slam tennis title and is trying to become the first US Open repeat winner since Big Sis did so in 2000-2001.

The way she's playing right now, barring a monumental upset or running into her sister Venus in the semifinals, she just might get it.

Dan Savage, Chill With Your Race Baiting

Dan Savage just won't give up pimping that thoroughly discredited meme about the Prop 8 loss in Ca-lee-forn-ia.

“I do know this, though: I’m done pretending that the handful of racist gay white men out there—and they’re out there, and I think they’re scum—are a bigger problem for African Americans, gay and straight, than the huge numbers of homophobic African Americans are for gay Americans, whatever their color.

"This will get my name scratched of the invite list of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, which is famous for its anti-racist-training seminars, but whatever. Finally, I’m searching for some exit poll data from California. I’ll eat my shorts if gay and lesbian voters went for McCain at anything approaching the rate that black voters went for Prop 8.”


Damn, just when we thought the drama over Prop 8 had subsided a bit, here comes Savage pouring gasoline on the smoldering embers.

Yo Dan, you want fries and A1 sauce to go with your roasted shorts?

From where I, other Black GLBT people and our allies sit, you're part of the racist gay white male club. You definitely need to attend one of those anti-racism training sessions you trashed at the 2010 Creating Change Conference in Dallas February 3-7..

Get this through your thick head. African-Americans make up only 9% of the total population of California. We're significantly concentrated in just five counties, Alameda, Los Angeles, San Francisco, Sacramento and San Diego. Prop 8 won by a half a million votes.

If we were as powerful a voting bloc as you claim, Gray Davis would have survived his 2003 recall vote, Tom Bradley would have been elected governor of California in 1982 and Ronald Reagan would have never set foot in the governor's mansion in Sacramento..

How do you explain Alameda County (Oakland) voting AGAINST Prop 8, especially since there are lots of chocolate flavored folks living there?

But I and the African-American GLBT community are more than a little sick of your race baiting attacks on our community. It's got our allies concerned and is pissing off our supporters in the African-American community as well..

I guess it escaped your attention that some of your major legislative supporters have been members of the Congressional Black Caucus such as the current chair of the CBC, Rep. Barbara Lee (D-CA) and civil rights icon Rep John Lewis (D-GA).

You've also had consistent support from Julian Bond, the late Coretta Scott King, California NAACP chair Alice Huffman.and other African-American leaders who see this just as I do as a civil rights issue.

We have our knuckleheads such as Bishop Harry Jackson and his sellout minister friends who are doing the dirty work of the Traditional Values Coalition as card carrying members of the Forces of Intolerance. Black GLBT people and bloggers have just as forcefully called them out as I'm doing to your soon to be shorts eating behind right now.

But as many of us continue to point out, the righteous anger you have needs to be focused on the people who were responsible for Prop 8's crafting, collecting the signatures to get it on the California ballot, financing the campaign and who voted for it.

And those people disproportionately share your ethnic heritage.

And hello, did it not occur to your vanilla flavored privileged behind that there are Black GLBT people in groups such as the National Black Justice Coalition who are busting their behinds to get marriage equality passed?.

The GL community has failed at intersectionality, cultivating and being good allies and cracking down on the racism within the GLBT family that causes discourse. It has also failed at crafting a pro marriage equality message that resonates in my community because of the lack of melanin in the GL community leadership ranks.

While I have seen some slight improvements recently on those fronts, we still have a long way to go


In addition, the constant pushing of the 'we're just like you' message and holding out affluent white gay men as the standard bearers for the community is a factor leading into why there's so much right wing pushback against GLBT rights besides the yuck factor and faith based homophobia.

The 'we're just like you' message, especially when being articulated by white gay males is interpreted by Black people in the context of our historic centuries old animosity rooted in slavery.

And I can't and won't forget as a transperson fighting for my community's civil rights that some of the people opposed to trans inclusion in the GL community, the movement we helped start, ENDA, hate crimes and other civil rights legislation over the last 40 years have been white gay males.

So when Savage's HBO television show cranks up, my television will be tuned to another channel since it's obvious he has no regard or respect for my African-American community or his Black GLBT/SGL allies.

But seriously Dan, chill with the race baiting. It's so 20th century.


Crossposted from Feministe and the Bilerico Project

Leiomy Ballroom Video

First the late Willi Ninja becomes a breakout icon from the ballroom community in the wake of the Paris Is Burning documentary along with Octavia. Then Jose Xtravaganza ends up as one of Madonna's dancers and in her Vogue video.

Isis makes the move from the ballroom floor runway competition to America's Next Top Model, and now we have Leiomy Mizrahi Maldonado making a name for herself and the Vogue Evolution dance crew she's been leading in Season 4 of America's Best Dance Crew.

Check out some of her moves from the ballroom.





And word to mainstream peeps, you may want to start checking out a ballroom competition near you. Your next runway modeling superstar or hot dancer could be honing their skills there right now.

Wednesday, September 02, 2009

Dan Savage, Racism Has Its Rewards

TransGriot Note: This guest post is from my Canadian homegirl Renee at Womanist Musings

Well, it seems that HBO has decided to give Dan Savage his own show, excuse me for a moment while I am reflexively ill. Dan is just the kind of edgy fauxgressive that the media loves to embrace. He does after all write about the great taboo – sex. To make matters even more appealing, he represents the type of gay White male that the media loves to portray.

He is educated and has class privilege – yup, that sums up the GLBT community and allows networks like HBO to put a checkmark beside their inclusive of all peoples box. No need to find a person of color in the GLBT community to promote, when the media can present yet another edgy White male.

There are those that believe that any representation of the GLBT community is a good thing because let’s face it, there is a lot of invisibility in prime time, however; the stylized promotion of White male equalling the GLBT community, is problematic and racist. Can you believe I dared to say it? Then we have Savage himself, the great champion of gay rights. How could he possibly be deemed a problematic choice, when he dares to speak truth to power right? Well, how about we look at this little quote:

“I do know this, though: I’m done pretending that the handful of racist gay white men out there—and they’re out there, and I think they’re scum—are a bigger problem for African Americans, gay and straight, than the huge numbers of homophobic African Americans are for gay Americans, whatever their color.

"This will get my name scratched of the invite list of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, which is famous for its anti-racist-training seminars, but whatever. Finally, I’m searching for some exit poll data from California. I’ll eat my shorts if gay and lesbian voters went for McCain at anything approaching the rate that black voters went for Prop 8.”


Anyone recall a public apology for this little racist screed? Nope, why apologize? He is White and gay, and his lefty credentials means that he can say whatever the hell he wants, without apologizing to those he may have offended. What Dan really wants is equality and we uppity Negroes ruined it for him. He is well aware that homophobia is what is stopping him from taking full advantage of his White male privilege. I know who you want equality with Dan and it is certainly not with people who look like me.

Perhaps I should forget this little commentary, the way he forgot that Coretta Scott King said, “I appeal to everyone who believes in Martin Luther King’s dream to make room at the table of brotherhood and sisterhood for lesbian and gay people.” Is she representative of Black community for you Savage?

How about Julian Bond, chairman of the NAACP who stated, “There are no ‘special rights’ in America; we are all entitled to life, liberty and happiness’ pursuit. I see this as a civil rights issue. That means I support gay civil marriage.”

Then of course there is Rep. John Lewis (D-GA) who emphatically declared, “It is time to say forthrightly that government’s exclusion of our gay and lesbian brothers and sisters from civil marriage officially degrades them and their families…this discrimination is wrong.”

We however are the danger to the GLBT community. No Black people have ever advocated for gay rights. Why would we, we are all to busy being thugs and harassing the GLBT community. Who would have thought that Harvey Milk, Matthew Shepard, Brandon Teena (transman), and JR Warren were all murdered in cold blood by White people. Wasn’t there an African American fall guy that they could have scraped together to blame for these deaths? We are, after all, nothing but homophobic thugs right?

Savage’s commentary post Prop 8 may have been forgotten by many but to those of us who are of color, who are either same gender loving or allies to the community, it is a sting that cannot be overlooked. Savage was not openly decried by the GLBT community, in fact he was championed as a hero. Those that are White can understand why he was upset, after all, who would want to be oppressed by Blacks, when socially it is understood that Whites are supposed to be the top of the food chain.

Well, Dan need not worry about being oppressed by Blacks because HBO will be giving him his own platform, where he may wax poetic and take his place amongst the pantheon of White males. For a man that is leading a life of extreme hardship, he seems to have done quite well for himself.

Lil Mama Apologizes For Negative Comments To Leiomy

I'll admit because I have such disdain and contempt for reality TV shows, I missed Sunday's America's Best Dance Crew show on MTV in which judge Lil' Mama made disparaging comments to Leiomy Maldonado.

If you haven't heard it by now, the leader of the New York based Vogue Evolution team is a trans woman. These vets of the NY ballroom scene have been ripping it up for several weeks now in their quest to not only represent the GLBT community, but win the $100,000 grand prize as well.





Leiomy has also taken this time in the media spotlight to openly talk about being trans and has done a few interviews with Vogue Evolution about being an out and proud dance crew.

But back to the business at hand. During the August 30, 2009 episode rapper Lil Mama, one of the judges for this show, said this during a critique:



“Leiomy, come on. Your behavior…it’s unacceptable. I just feel that you always have to remember your truth. You were born a man and you are becoming a woman. If you’re going to become a woman, act like a lady. Don’t be a bird, like ‘Oh my god, I’m not doing this!’ You know what I’m saying? It gets too crazy and it gets confusing. You’re doing this for America. Even though you’re the face for transgenders, you’re the face of America right now with this group and it’s not about anybody else. It’s about y’all. You know what I’m saying? So do it for the team. Do it for the team.”


GLAAD reached out to Lil Mama and MTV after receiving numerous calls and e-mails from community members and allies regarding those comments.

GLAAD sent me an e-mail this afternoon letting me know that Lil Mama has now apologized for those comments.

Lil Mama: "I would like to clarify anything that was misunderstood from Sunday's show. My remarks were never meant to be disrespectful regarding Leiomy's  gender nor offensive to the LGBT community, which has been a community that has supported me in all my endeavors.

However, in hindsight, I recognize that my words may have come across as hurtful. I spoke with her privately after the taping to express that it was not my intent to offend her or any member of the transgender community and that I still live for Vogue Evolution."


"While we thank Lil Mama for her apology, this incident demonstrates the need for more education around the lives and experiences of transgender people. Lil Mama’s comments during her critique attempted to impose standards of conformity for gender identity and expression -- a mistake that many people make,” said Rashad Robinson, Senior Director of Media Programs at GLAAD.

“Transgender people, particularly transgender women of color, become targets of discrimination and violence when inaccuracies and acts of insult like this are advanced. Contrary to what was said on the program, as an openly transgender woman and dance contestant, Leiomy is living her truth,” Robinson continued.

“It was surprising that MTV, a network that has shown a strong commitment to fair and accurate inclusion of transgender and gay people, would choose to air a clip that includes such disrespectful comments,” said Robinson.

MTV has not yet publicly addressed the comments made by Lil Mama in the episode.

But while we're waiting for their reaction, I'm gonna have to start tuning in to America's Best Dance Crew and see if Vogue Evolution can win it all.