It turns out that the trans teen who went missing back in June is sadly now one of 23 trans people who we have lost in the US due to anti-trans violence.
17 year old Nikki Kuhnhausen went missing back on June 6 after setting up a meeting with 25 year old David Bogdanov. She had conversing with him on Snapchat, and after setting up a June 5 meeting with him disappeared.
Bogdanov was named as a person of interest in her disappearance, and admitted during an October interview with detectives that he and Nikki met, and during their conversation he discovered she was trans. He said that was offensive to his culture and he asked her to get out of his van.
Bogdanov claimed that Nikki walked away from his van and he never saw her again.
Nikki's remains were found on Larch Mountain in the remote northeastern part of Clark County, Washington on December 7.
Bogdanov was arrested today by Vancouver police and charged with Kuhnhausen's murder, and his cell phone records according to detectives, put him in the same remote area of northeastern Clark County on June 6 where Nikki's remains were found.
Bogdanov has been charged with second degree murder, and is being held without bail. He will face his first appearance in Clark County Courthouse.
That makes Nikki the 23rd trans person we have lost to anti-trans violence, and the second trans teenager we've lost in 2019. She is also the second White trans person who has been killed this year. .
Rest in power Nikki. Your life was taken way too soon, and here's hoping that justice will be served in your case.
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Tuesday, December 17, 2019
Monday, February 04, 2019
A Trans Homecoming Queen Reigns In Forsyth County, GA
Forsyth County, GA has a long, ugly history for the peeps in the ATL metro area of being a hotbed of racism and homophobia deep in the heart of Georgia Klan country.
It was a huge and delightful surprise when I learned that the latest trans homecoming queen lives there.
17 year old Charlie Baum is a senior at Forsyth Central High School who has known she was a girl like us since childhood. She has endured bullying and even death threats for much of her scholastic career.
She started wearing makeup and doing drag in high school, and that only intensified the transphobic and homophobic hatred and public bullying being aimed at her.
Nevertheless she persisted, and started an Instagram page last June with thousands of followers that serves as an outlet for her pro TBLGQ stances and thoughts.
She didn't come out as trans until December, and was just simply looking forward to graduating and leaving Forsyth County for a more welcoming environment and to be girl like us herself.
That was until two of her classmates, Midori and Nicole, nominated her for homecoming queen.
At first her family feared that this was only a cruel joke being played on her, but once Baum was determined to be eligible for the honor, she went for it after realizing the potential historic nature of her winning the homecoming queen honor as a trans girl.
She discovered when she won, she had far more support at Forsyth Central High than she thought she had, and hopes her historic win helps normalize the lives of trans people. She also hopes it helps trans kids to not be afraid to dream big.
"I want trans individual stories to be heard, and visibility is everything. I want to inspire other trans youth to know you can do it," said Baum.
"Break boundaries! Make History! Rock that sash!"|
Congratulations Charlie for making that history, in Forsyth County of all places.
It was a huge and delightful surprise when I learned that the latest trans homecoming queen lives there.
17 year old Charlie Baum is a senior at Forsyth Central High School who has known she was a girl like us since childhood. She has endured bullying and even death threats for much of her scholastic career.
She started wearing makeup and doing drag in high school, and that only intensified the transphobic and homophobic hatred and public bullying being aimed at her.
Nevertheless she persisted, and started an Instagram page last June with thousands of followers that serves as an outlet for her pro TBLGQ stances and thoughts.
She didn't come out as trans until December, and was just simply looking forward to graduating and leaving Forsyth County for a more welcoming environment and to be girl like us herself.
That was until two of her classmates, Midori and Nicole, nominated her for homecoming queen.
At first her family feared that this was only a cruel joke being played on her, but once Baum was determined to be eligible for the honor, she went for it after realizing the potential historic nature of her winning the homecoming queen honor as a trans girl.
She discovered when she won, she had far more support at Forsyth Central High than she thought she had, and hopes her historic win helps normalize the lives of trans people. She also hopes it helps trans kids to not be afraid to dream big.
"I want trans individual stories to be heard, and visibility is everything. I want to inspire other trans youth to know you can do it," said Baum.
"Break boundaries! Make History! Rock that sash!"|
Congratulations Charlie for making that history, in Forsyth County of all places.
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Tuesday, October 31, 2017
Girl Becomes First Trans Cheerleader At Her School
Was wondering when I would get to post some positive news on TransGriot concerning the trans Class of 2018 and what trails they blaze at their respective schools, and here is a story straight out of California as usual.
When we transfols have the opportunity to become our true selves, once the gender issue is out of the way, we can focus our attention and awesomeness into fulfilling whatever we wish to do.
In Denair High School senior Amy Fuentes' case it was to become the first ever trans cheerleader at her school.
"When I was first trying out for the cheer squad, it wasn't like I'm going to be the first transgender girl," Fuentes said in a PEOPLE magazine interview. "I was just trying out because I wanted to be a cheerleader, and I wanted to dance and cheer."
Amy knew coming into high school that she wasn't one of the guys, and first came out as gay during her freshman year. But after doing more research in her junior year, had the epiphany she was transgender.
While she has been accepted as the girl she is by her classmates and the cheer squad, she had a rougher road to acceptance with her mother. She ended up moving in with another cheerleader because of that lack of maternal acceptance.
But the good news is that she and her mother have been resolving their differences, and she plans to move back home soon.
Congrats Amy! Hope your senior year is one that continues to be blessings filled for you and continued good luck in your life journey.
When we transfols have the opportunity to become our true selves, once the gender issue is out of the way, we can focus our attention and awesomeness into fulfilling whatever we wish to do.
In Denair High School senior Amy Fuentes' case it was to become the first ever trans cheerleader at her school.
"When I was first trying out for the cheer squad, it wasn't like I'm going to be the first transgender girl," Fuentes said in a PEOPLE magazine interview. "I was just trying out because I wanted to be a cheerleader, and I wanted to dance and cheer."
Amy knew coming into high school that she wasn't one of the guys, and first came out as gay during her freshman year. But after doing more research in her junior year, had the epiphany she was transgender.
While she has been accepted as the girl she is by her classmates and the cheer squad, she had a rougher road to acceptance with her mother. She ended up moving in with another cheerleader because of that lack of maternal acceptance.
But the good news is that she and her mother have been resolving their differences, and she plans to move back home soon.
Congrats Amy! Hope your senior year is one that continues to be blessings filled for you and continued good luck in your life journey.
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trans Latina,
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Wednesday, June 21, 2017
I Am Jazz Season 3 Starts June 28
.Well, y';all know how much I love Jazz Jennings and her mom Jeanette, and had the pleasure of meeting the entire family with the exception of her dad back in 2012.
While I'm not a big fan of reality TV shows, I An Jazz is one of the few that I will watch, and Season 3 of this two time GLAAD Award winning show gets cranked up on June 28.
Our fave trans teen gets to go on dates, is shown dealing with the trials and tribulations of being a teen, turning 16 and is seen on The Blaze studio set taking on conservative Tomi Lahren.
She also gets some unexpected transition related news that you'll get to see during this season.
So it's almost time to watch all the interesting twists and turns of Jazz's amazing life and it all starts on TLC on June 28
While I'm not a big fan of reality TV shows, I An Jazz is one of the few that I will watch, and Season 3 of this two time GLAAD Award winning show gets cranked up on June 28.
Our fave trans teen gets to go on dates, is shown dealing with the trials and tribulations of being a teen, turning 16 and is seen on The Blaze studio set taking on conservative Tomi Lahren.
She also gets some unexpected transition related news that you'll get to see during this season.
So it's almost time to watch all the interesting twists and turns of Jazz's amazing life and it all starts on TLC on June 28
Saturday, February 25, 2017
Mack Beggs Is The Texas Class 6A State Wrestling Champ!
Good luck Mack!. Hope you leave the area with a historic state title win, and next year the UIL comes to its senses and allows you to wrestle against boys as you wish to do.
-TransGriot
And the first part of that statement is exactly what happened.
Mack Beggs is the 2017 Texas Class 6A state wresting champion in his 110 pound weight class after winning his girls championship match 12-1 against Chelsea Sanchez of Katy Morton Ranch HS to cap off an undefeated season.
That's not a typo. The Texas Class 6A Girls state wrestling champion in his 110 pound weight class.
The 'Mack Attack' would have rather done so in the 6A boys division and been on the Trinity HS boys team. UIL policy forces Texas trans athletes to compete based on the birth certificate gender marker and not their gender presentation.
They denied the Trinity HS junior his request to compete in the boys division, and the result is the lousy no-win optics for him, his fellow competitors, and the UIL as he rolled through an undefeated 56-0 season to a state title.
Mack is also on testosterone as part of his gender transition, and that was also permissible because Mack was taking it for medical reasons, and his testosterone was below the allowed limit.
The UIL is still trying to defend the indefensible transphobic rules they put in place, and claim there's 'no interest' in changing the rules that allowed this messed up situation to happen in the first place.
But the UIL needs to join us in the 21st century and base high school athletic competition for Texas trans kids on gender presentation and not their birth certificate.
It's either the UIL come to that realization on their own or have the change forced upon them by legal action.
-TransGriot
And the first part of that statement is exactly what happened.
Mack Beggs is the 2017 Texas Class 6A state wresting champion in his 110 pound weight class after winning his girls championship match 12-1 against Chelsea Sanchez of Katy Morton Ranch HS to cap off an undefeated season.
That's not a typo. The Texas Class 6A Girls state wrestling champion in his 110 pound weight class.
The 'Mack Attack' would have rather done so in the 6A boys division and been on the Trinity HS boys team. UIL policy forces Texas trans athletes to compete based on the birth certificate gender marker and not their gender presentation.
They denied the Trinity HS junior his request to compete in the boys division, and the result is the lousy no-win optics for him, his fellow competitors, and the UIL as he rolled through an undefeated 56-0 season to a state title.
Mack is also on testosterone as part of his gender transition, and that was also permissible because Mack was taking it for medical reasons, and his testosterone was below the allowed limit.
The UIL is still trying to defend the indefensible transphobic rules they put in place, and claim there's 'no interest' in changing the rules that allowed this messed up situation to happen in the first place.
But the UIL needs to join us in the 21st century and base high school athletic competition for Texas trans kids on gender presentation and not their birth certificate.
It's either the UIL come to that realization on their own or have the change forced upon them by legal action.
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transteens,
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Monday, December 12, 2016
Microsoft's New Holiday Ad Featuring Jazz
This is a Christmas commercial I can definitely get into.
There have been a few Christmas commercials and ads featuring fictional TBLGQ people and families in their 2016 holiday advertising
Microsoft decided to step it up another level and feature an actual TBLGQ person in their 'Art of Harmony' ads for their Microsoft Surface Studio..
Jazz Jennings is one of the people featured in the ad that also includes 7 year old Zea Bowling, who stood up to a homophobic preacher after the Obergefell SCOTUS ruling, Zianna Oliphant, who made a heartfelt speech on racial issues to the Charlotte City Council, Florida police officer Bobby White, AKA 'the basketball cop' , West African refugee Haws Diallo, Mona Haydar, who invites people to 'Ask a Muslim' and talk to her about a wide range of issues. and Christopher Catrambone, who launched a search and rescue group for migrants crossing the Mediterranean Sea.
The people in the d are shown using the Microsoft Surface Studio to create a message of peace, love and inclusion.
And as you probably guessed the conservafools are hating on the ad.
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There have been a few Christmas commercials and ads featuring fictional TBLGQ people and families in their 2016 holiday advertising
Microsoft decided to step it up another level and feature an actual TBLGQ person in their 'Art of Harmony' ads for their Microsoft Surface Studio..
Jazz Jennings is one of the people featured in the ad that also includes 7 year old Zea Bowling, who stood up to a homophobic preacher after the Obergefell SCOTUS ruling, Zianna Oliphant, who made a heartfelt speech on racial issues to the Charlotte City Council, Florida police officer Bobby White, AKA 'the basketball cop' , West African refugee Haws Diallo, Mona Haydar, who invites people to 'Ask a Muslim' and talk to her about a wide range of issues. and Christopher Catrambone, who launched a search and rescue group for migrants crossing the Mediterranean Sea.
The people in the d are shown using the Microsoft Surface Studio to create a message of peace, love and inclusion.
And as you probably guessed the conservafools are hating on the ad.
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Friday, October 28, 2016
Happy Birthday, Trinity!
It's come to my attention that today is the birthday of one of our amazing trans teens!
I got to meet Trinity and her mom DeShanna back in June during the Philadelphia Trans Health Conference, and over the last few months she's been making it clear that she wants to not only become a possibility model and advocate for our community.
Today is Trinity's 13th birthday, so wanted to take a moment to give her a well deserved TransGriot birthday shout out as she officially enters her teen years..
Happy Birthday Trinity! Hope today is filled with lots of love, fun and abundant blessings. May all your birthday wishes come true, and may you be given the ultimate blessing of celebrating many more birthdays to come
I got to meet Trinity and her mom DeShanna back in June during the Philadelphia Trans Health Conference, and over the last few months she's been making it clear that she wants to not only become a possibility model and advocate for our community.
Today is Trinity's 13th birthday, so wanted to take a moment to give her a well deserved TransGriot birthday shout out as she officially enters her teen years..
Happy Birthday Trinity! Hope today is filled with lots of love, fun and abundant blessings. May all your birthday wishes come true, and may you be given the ultimate blessing of celebrating many more birthdays to come
Thursday, October 27, 2016
Our First Trans Homecoming Queen Of The 2016-17 School Year Is...
Selena Milian!
I was wondering in the face of all the conservahate being ramped up against the transgender community right now if there would be any trans masculine or trans feminine homecoming kings or queens crowned during this 2016-17 school year.
Well, I'm happy to announce that we have our first that I'm aware of trans feminine homecoming queen that has been crowned in this 2016-17 school year and surprise, surprise it was in North Carolina. .
Yes, the same North Carolina where Hate Bill 2 is still on the books despite the over $400 million (and counting) in economic damage it has done.
The same North Carolina in which the first trans masculine homecoming king in Blake Brockington committed suicide a year after making that history.
The 18 year old senior came out as trans during her freshman year, and despite all the drama and hardships Milian has faced, was crowned homecoming queen on October 24 after being elected by her classmates at Overhills High School in Spring Lake, NC on October 21.
She is the first out trans feminine homecoming queen in North Carolina.
Besides plans to eventually go on hormones, and go to cosmetology school, what she'd really like to do is become an advocate. "Being crowned homecoming queen was just the first step. I want to help my community and continue to make a difference."
Congratulations Selena and hope the rest of your senior year is as fabulous and memorable as the start of it.
I was wondering in the face of all the conservahate being ramped up against the transgender community right now if there would be any trans masculine or trans feminine homecoming kings or queens crowned during this 2016-17 school year.
Well, I'm happy to announce that we have our first that I'm aware of trans feminine homecoming queen that has been crowned in this 2016-17 school year and surprise, surprise it was in North Carolina. .
The same North Carolina in which the first trans masculine homecoming king in Blake Brockington committed suicide a year after making that history.
The 18 year old senior came out as trans during her freshman year, and despite all the drama and hardships Milian has faced, was crowned homecoming queen on October 24 after being elected by her classmates at Overhills High School in Spring Lake, NC on October 21.
She is the first out trans feminine homecoming queen in North Carolina.
Besides plans to eventually go on hormones, and go to cosmetology school, what she'd really like to do is become an advocate. "Being crowned homecoming queen was just the first step. I want to help my community and continue to make a difference."
Congratulations Selena and hope the rest of your senior year is as fabulous and memorable as the start of it.
Labels:
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North Carolina,
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Thursday, October 06, 2016
Happy Sweet 16th Birthday Jazz!
Today is the Sweet 16th birthday of one of our amazing trans teen advocates in Jazz Jennings!
What can you say about someone who has been an eloquent voice and human rights warrior for our community since the ripe old age of six, has authored two books, and has a hit reality TV show that we're hoping gets renewed for its third season?
And I'm glad to have had the pleasure of meeting this amazing young woman.
Yep, our baby has been growing up in front of ours, Jeanette's and the world's eyes and still isn't done yet, and it seems like just yesterday we were being introduced to her by Barbara Walters on 20/20..
Happy Sweet 16th Birthday Jazz! Can't wait to see what the next chapter in your young life brings .
What can you say about someone who has been an eloquent voice and human rights warrior for our community since the ripe old age of six, has authored two books, and has a hit reality TV show that we're hoping gets renewed for its third season?
And I'm glad to have had the pleasure of meeting this amazing young woman.
Yep, our baby has been growing up in front of ours, Jeanette's and the world's eyes and still isn't done yet, and it seems like just yesterday we were being introduced to her by Barbara Walters on 20/20..
Happy Sweet 16th Birthday Jazz! Can't wait to see what the next chapter in your young life brings .
Will We See Any Trans Homecoming Queens and Kings This School Year?
Since it's now October, it's about that time that high schools across the country in this 2016-17 school year have their homecoming games. The highlight of that week and at that halftime game is the announcement of the persons selected by a student body vote as homecoming queen or king . .
Was happy to see the historic win last school year of Landon Patterson in Missouri as her school's and the state of Missouri's first ever trans feminine homecoming queen.
Hope Landon is thriving in her post high school life, and if you don't think that her winning homecoming queen was a BFD, keep reading.
It was obviously a BFD enough for the reprehensible Phelps Phamily to show up and picket at Landon's school
I'm thinking about it in the context of the post DOE/DOJ Dear Colleague letter that states that discrimination against trans students is prohibited under Title IX and eleven Republican controlled states immediately suing to keep having the ability to do precisely that.
While we in Trans World keep getting legal wins that are emphatically stating that discrimination against trans students violates Title IX, we're still going to have some transphobic bigots and fools that will try it.
That's why it will be even more important to see a trans masculine and trans feminine student walking away with their schools homecoming king or queen crown this year and I'm wondering where will this particular trans history will be made next?
It's not only a milestone for that particular student that gets selected by their classmates for that honor, it also signals trans human rights progress to the wider world.
It also signals to the transgender student that their fellow students recognize and respect them for who they are.
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Wednesday, October 05, 2016
Two Federal Courts Rule Trans Students Are Protected Under Title IX
While we Texans await the results of an appeal to a case being heard by Reed O'Connor, a GW Bush appointed transphobic judge, the human rights of trans students got a major boost with two recent federal court victories in Ohio and Wisconsin.
It's also another clear example of pointing out who you elect as president matters because the POTUS selects the people who sit on the federal bench.
Increasing numbers of victorious court cases have found that transgender students are protected from discrimination under Title IX, including being forced into separate bathrooms.
Both cases involve trans students and bathroom access and these students trying for years to get the school districts to do the right human rights thing before turning to the court system. .
In Ohio, US District Judge Algenon L. Marbley (Clinton appointee) ordered that the Highland Local School District allow an 11 year old transfeminine student known as Jane Doe to use the girls restroom just like any other girls at her elementary school.
Judge Marbley found in a 45 page opinion that denying Jane Doe use of the restroom consistent with her gender identity violates Title IX.
The school district, which covers parts of Delaware, Knox and Monroe counties,filed the suit in June opposition to the DOE/GOJ Dear Colleague letter and lost. The attorney for the district have of course, appealed the ruling.to the Sixth Circuit Court of Appeals.
The Sixth Circuit is considered the most conservative leaning in the country, and this ruling holding up in it would be huge.
In the other trans friendly court ruling in Wisconsin, US District Court Judge Pamela Pepper (Obama appointee)declined to dismiss the federal discrimination lawsuit filed by Ash Whitaker and ordered the Kenosha Unified School District to immediately allow 17 year old student Ash Whitaker to be allowed to use the bathroom just like any other boys in his school.
Pepper found that KUSD had violated Title IX denying Ash the ability to use facilities consistent with his gender identity would cause him irreparable harm. She recognized the emotional, physical and emotional harm that the discriminatory KUSD policy had inflicted on him.
It was wonderful news to hear about these trans court victories in Ohio and Wisconsin. These cases are giving us hope in Texas that the courts in the Fifth Circuit will eventually wake up and recognize that trans rights are human rights, and that it's not okay to discriminate against trans students. ,
It's also another clear example of pointing out who you elect as president matters because the POTUS selects the people who sit on the federal bench.
Increasing numbers of victorious court cases have found that transgender students are protected from discrimination under Title IX, including being forced into separate bathrooms.
Both cases involve trans students and bathroom access and these students trying for years to get the school districts to do the right human rights thing before turning to the court system. .
In Ohio, US District Judge Algenon L. Marbley (Clinton appointee) ordered that the Highland Local School District allow an 11 year old transfeminine student known as Jane Doe to use the girls restroom just like any other girls at her elementary school.
Judge Marbley found in a 45 page opinion that denying Jane Doe use of the restroom consistent with her gender identity violates Title IX.
The school district, which covers parts of Delaware, Knox and Monroe counties,filed the suit in June opposition to the DOE/GOJ Dear Colleague letter and lost. The attorney for the district have of course, appealed the ruling.to the Sixth Circuit Court of Appeals.
The Sixth Circuit is considered the most conservative leaning in the country, and this ruling holding up in it would be huge.
In the other trans friendly court ruling in Wisconsin, US District Court Judge Pamela Pepper (Obama appointee)declined to dismiss the federal discrimination lawsuit filed by Ash Whitaker and ordered the Kenosha Unified School District to immediately allow 17 year old student Ash Whitaker to be allowed to use the bathroom just like any other boys in his school.
Pepper found that KUSD had violated Title IX denying Ash the ability to use facilities consistent with his gender identity would cause him irreparable harm. She recognized the emotional, physical and emotional harm that the discriminatory KUSD policy had inflicted on him.
It was wonderful news to hear about these trans court victories in Ohio and Wisconsin. These cases are giving us hope in Texas that the courts in the Fifth Circuit will eventually wake up and recognize that trans rights are human rights, and that it's not okay to discriminate against trans students. ,
Labels:
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Ohio,
trans human rights,
trans kids,
transteens,
Wisconsin
Monday, October 03, 2016
Love Your Black Trans KIds
One of the things that I have been angry about in my Black community is the disturbing pattern of a cadre of Black parents when their child reveals to them they are trans, negatively react by throwing them out of their homes.
It is a problem so pervasive that 13% of homeless transgender kids in the US are African-American, and that needs to stop. I was cognizant of in it the late 70's when I was a teen debating whether to tell my own parents about my desire to transition.
Research shows that trans kids having supportive parents can have a profound positive effect on trans kids,and it stands to reason that if they are happier in childhood, they will grow up to become happier well adjusted adults.
I have been pleased to see in the last few years more Black trans parents at events and conventions in which parents of trans kids gather.
I have much love and respect for DeShanna Neal, who is raising an amazing trans feminine teen daughter in Trinity, who is telling her story in this ESSENCE article. I was also pleased to see J.R. Ford, one of the trans dads who is speaking out about raising a trans child in this video.
I was thrilled to discover during the recent Gender Infinity Conference I attended that more Black parents are supporting their trans kids and not throwing them on the streets and starting to step up to leadership roles.
I was introduced during Gender Infinity to Gail Levein Barnett, who sits on the Houston PFLAG board and has a trans daughter.
I also met during the conference Jodie Patterson, who is raising her trans son Penel and talked about it during her keynote speech.
I also met other Black parents of trans kids at Gender Infinity and others during this year who have told me they not only love and support them, it's past time for the transphobic ignorance aimed at them and trans people of all ages in our Black community to immediately end.
I agree with them on that point. Black America, it's past time for you to stop listening to anti-trans talking points that came from white fundamentalists, being regurgitated by your ministers cooning it up for conservacash and conservative media attention and other ignorant know-nothings.
And yes, in a world in which right wing politicians are ramping up anti-trans hatred for their own political gain, it's even more imperative that we see more Black parents of trans kids and their allies on the front lines defending our trans youth from legislative and rhetorical attack.
It is past time for Black America to unconditionally love their trans children, not revile them. It's also imperative that we Black trans adults shower our trans kids with love and support our Mama and Papa Bears raising those kids. As the possibility models for those trans kids, if we don't love and support our trans kids or the parents raising those trans children, who will?
I am willing to help my people accomplish that mission by working with the parents of trans kids to point out they exist, do what I can to support them, and relentlessly point out the humanity of our trans children is not up for debate or discussion.
If you believe that the children are our future, as the classic lyrics of the song 'The Greatest Love Of All' states, and claim you love our children, then by extension, Black trans kids are included.
Monday, September 26, 2016
Trinity's ESSENCE Article
I met Trinity and her mom DeShanna back during this year's Philadelphia Trans Health Conference, and have much love for the Delaware based trans teen who began her transition at age 4.
As she has said to me, she is going to make trans history, and she wasn't kidding. She recently visited Delaware Governor Jack Markell's (D) office with her family,
An ESSENCE magazine article came out today featuring her story, and I found it amazing since it wasn't that long ago Tracey Norman was shooting her sixth cover for ESSENCE and it was shut down after someone shadily outed her to Susan L Taylor. Now they have had Laverne Cox on the cover twice, but still have yet to give her a solo one.
I'm talking about that past history in needed to point our just how far ESSENCE has moved on covering trans people in our community since the early 80's. An article about a trans teen in an iconic Black magazine is a big deal.
Twelve year old Trinity tells her story to ESSENCE readers, and said in it she wants to make the world more friendly for trans people.
"I want to tell kids to be themselves and release who they are," said Trinity. "They don't need to hide all the time. I had to tell my parents, and they could do the same thing. I want to change the world by making it much more friendly to trans people."
Here's the link to the ESSENCE article, and thanks Trinity for telling your story in one of our iconic magazines. I have a feeling it won't be the last interview you do.
As she has said to me, she is going to make trans history, and she wasn't kidding. She recently visited Delaware Governor Jack Markell's (D) office with her family,
An ESSENCE magazine article came out today featuring her story, and I found it amazing since it wasn't that long ago Tracey Norman was shooting her sixth cover for ESSENCE and it was shut down after someone shadily outed her to Susan L Taylor. Now they have had Laverne Cox on the cover twice, but still have yet to give her a solo one.
I'm talking about that past history in needed to point our just how far ESSENCE has moved on covering trans people in our community since the early 80's. An article about a trans teen in an iconic Black magazine is a big deal.
Twelve year old Trinity tells her story to ESSENCE readers, and said in it she wants to make the world more friendly for trans people.
"I want to tell kids to be themselves and release who they are," said Trinity. "They don't need to hide all the time. I had to tell my parents, and they could do the same thing. I want to change the world by making it much more friendly to trans people."
Here's the link to the ESSENCE article, and thanks Trinity for telling your story in one of our iconic magazines. I have a feeling it won't be the last interview you do.
Friday, June 03, 2016
I Am Jazz Season 2 Debuts June 8
We have a date for the Season 2 debut of the hit TLC reality TV show featuring our community's fave transteen Jazz Jennings and her family.
The second season will debut on June 8, and during its eight episode run will document Jazz's life as she navigates the jump to high school, sports, her social life and being an advocate
Just your average teenage girl who won a GLAAD Media Award for Outstanding Reality Series and was named to TIME Magazine's 25 Most Influential Teens list in 2014 and 2015.

This season she's learning that she may need surgery to deal with the puberty blocking implant, she and her mom Jeanette take on anti-trans haters targeting their family, dating and learning how to drive.
In other words, she's just your average teen. Her parents Greg and Jeanette, sister Ari and twin brothers Sander and Griffen will also return for season two.
The new season stats June 8, and if you have Xfinity On Demand, all the season one episodes are available for replay.
Looking forward to watching Season 2.
The second season will debut on June 8, and during its eight episode run will document Jazz's life as she navigates the jump to high school, sports, her social life and being an advocate
Just your average teenage girl who won a GLAAD Media Award for Outstanding Reality Series and was named to TIME Magazine's 25 Most Influential Teens list in 2014 and 2015.
This season she's learning that she may need surgery to deal with the puberty blocking implant, she and her mom Jeanette take on anti-trans haters targeting their family, dating and learning how to drive.
In other words, she's just your average teen. Her parents Greg and Jeanette, sister Ari and twin brothers Sander and Griffen will also return for season two.
The new season stats June 8, and if you have Xfinity On Demand, all the season one episodes are available for replay.
Looking forward to watching Season 2.
Friday, May 06, 2016
Nicole Maines' TED Talk
Another one of our amazing trans advocates I've had the pleasure of meeting is Nicole Maines.
This is the video of her TED Talk today that was focused on her growing up openly trans and coming to the point of loving and accepting herself. She also points out that community support is important so that trans youth like herself can find their voice.
Enough introductory jibber jabber from moi, let's get to the video for it.
Monday, March 21, 2016
The 'Obamacare Kid' Is Now Part Of Our Trans Family
Marcelas Owens' mother died in 2007 as a result of losing her job and subsequently her health insurance, and the then pint sized advocate told that story as part of the contentious push to pass the ACA.
It's now six years later, and Marcelas Owens is now a 17 year old trans teen living in Seattle who recently celebrated a birthday on March 10 and transitioned at age 16 with the love and acceptance of her grandmother Gina Owens.
It's bitterly ironic now that while the Affordable Care Act she championed does prohibit discrimination against trans people, unfortunately there are loopholes in the ACA that result in providers not being required to provide the transition related health care that she is now considering.
She is now beginning her evolutionary trans feminine journey while wondering if people will still love her.
While Rush Limbaugh, the right wing, transphobic fundies and the ignorati may hate on you, know that I, your trans elders and your trans family in Seattle, here in the US and around the world welcome you with open arms to our family.
You are now part of a community that stretches across the world. If we are blessed to meet each other, I'll be more than happy to give you a hug and whatever advice you wish about becoming the fierce Black trans woman that you have the potential to be. .
Welcome to the trans family, Marcelas.
Monday, December 28, 2015
Leelah Alcorn One Year Anniversary
Today is the sad day one year ago that 17 year old Leelah Alcorn stepped in front of an 18 wheeler truck near the South Lebanon, OH exit of I-71. Two hours later her suicide note popped up on her Tumblr blog urging those of us who fight for the human rights of trans people to 'fix society'.
She wanted her death to mean something for trans civil rights movements. While we have much work to do to get to that point where society will be safe for trans kind to navigate, the hard work is already being done to make that a reality.
So that we don't forget what happened on this day, here's the text of the note she posted on her blog a year ago.
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SUICIDE NOTE
If you are reading this, it means that I have committed suicide and obviously failed to delete this post from my queue.
Please don’t be sad, it’s for the better. The life I would’ve lived isn’t worth living in… because I’m transgender. I could go into detail explaining why I feel that way, but this note is probably going to be lengthy enough as it is. To put it simply, I feel like a girl trapped in a boy’s body, and I’ve felt that way ever since I was 4. I never knew there was a word for that feeling, nor was it possible for a boy to become a girl, so I never told anyone and I just continued to do traditionally “boyish” things to try to fit in.
When I was 14, I learned what transgender meant and cried of happiness. After 10 years of confusion I finally understood who I was. I immediately told my mom, and she reacted extremely negatively, telling me that it was a phase, that I would never truly be a girl, that God doesn’t make mistakes, that I am wrong. If you are reading this, parents, please don’t tell this to your kids. Even if you are Christian or are against transgender people don’t ever say that to someone, especially your kid. That won’t do anything but make them hate them self. That’s exactly what it did to me.
My mom started taking me to a therapist, but would only take me to christian therapists, (who were all very biased) so I never actually got the therapy I needed to cure me of my depression. I only got more christians telling me that I was selfish and wrong and that I should look to God for help.
When I was 16 I realized that my parents would never come around, and that I would have to wait until I was 18 to start any sort of transitioning treatment, which absolutely broke my heart. The longer you wait, the harder it is to transition. I felt hopeless, that I was just going to look like a man in drag for the rest of my life. On my 16th birthday, when I didn’t receive consent from my parents to start transitioning, I cried myself to sleep.
I formed a sort of a “fuck you” attitude towards my parents and came out as gay at school, thinking that maybe if I eased into coming out as trans it would be less of a shock. Although the reaction from my friends was positive, my parents were pissed. They felt like I was attacking their image, and that I was an embarrassment to them. They wanted me to be their perfect little straight christian boy, and that’s obviously not what I wanted.
So they took me out of public school, took away my laptop and phone, and forbid me of getting on any sort of social media, completely isolating me from my friends. This was probably the part of my life when I was the most depressed, and I’m surprised I didn’t kill myself. I was completely alone for 5 months. No friends, no support, no love. Just my parent’s disappointment and the cruelty of loneliness.
At the end of the school year, my parents finally came around and gave me my phone and let me back on social media. I was excited, I finally had my friends back. They were extremely excited to see me and talk to me, but only at first. Eventually they realized they didn’t actually give a shit about me, and I felt even lonelier than I did before. The only friends I thought I had only liked me because they saw me five times a week.
After a summer of having almost no friends plus the weight of having to think about college, save money for moving out, keep my grades up, go to church each week and feel like shit because everyone there is against everything I live for, I have decided I’ve had enough. I’m never going to transition successfully, even when I move out. I’m never going to be happy with the way I look or sound. I’m never going to have enough friends to satisfy me. I’m never going to have enough love to satisfy me. I’m never going to find a man who loves me. I’m never going to be happy. Either I live the rest of my life as a lonely man who wishes he were a woman or I live my life as a lonelier woman who hates herself. There’s no winning. There’s no way out. I’m sad enough already, I don’t need my life to get any worse. People say “it gets better” but that isn’t true in my case. It gets worse. Each day I get worse.
That’s the gist of it, that’s why I feel like killing myself. Sorry if that’s not a good enough reason for you, it’s good enough for me. As for my will, I want 100% of the things that I legally own to be sold and the money (plus my money in the bank) to be given to trans civil rights movements and support groups, I don’t give a shit which one. The only way I will rest in peace is if one day transgender people aren’t treated the way I was, they’re treated like humans, with valid feelings and human rights. Gender needs to be taught about in schools, the earlier the better. My death needs to mean something. My death needs to be counted in the number of transgender people who commit suicide this year. I want someone to look at that number and say “that’s fucked up” and fix it. Fix society. Please.
Goodbye,
(Leelah) Josh Alcorn
If you are reading this, it means that I have committed suicide and obviously failed to delete this post from my queue.
Please don’t be sad, it’s for the better. The life I would’ve lived isn’t worth living in… because I’m transgender. I could go into detail explaining why I feel that way, but this note is probably going to be lengthy enough as it is. To put it simply, I feel like a girl trapped in a boy’s body, and I’ve felt that way ever since I was 4. I never knew there was a word for that feeling, nor was it possible for a boy to become a girl, so I never told anyone and I just continued to do traditionally “boyish” things to try to fit in.
When I was 14, I learned what transgender meant and cried of happiness. After 10 years of confusion I finally understood who I was. I immediately told my mom, and she reacted extremely negatively, telling me that it was a phase, that I would never truly be a girl, that God doesn’t make mistakes, that I am wrong. If you are reading this, parents, please don’t tell this to your kids. Even if you are Christian or are against transgender people don’t ever say that to someone, especially your kid. That won’t do anything but make them hate them self. That’s exactly what it did to me.
My mom started taking me to a therapist, but would only take me to christian therapists, (who were all very biased) so I never actually got the therapy I needed to cure me of my depression. I only got more christians telling me that I was selfish and wrong and that I should look to God for help.
When I was 16 I realized that my parents would never come around, and that I would have to wait until I was 18 to start any sort of transitioning treatment, which absolutely broke my heart. The longer you wait, the harder it is to transition. I felt hopeless, that I was just going to look like a man in drag for the rest of my life. On my 16th birthday, when I didn’t receive consent from my parents to start transitioning, I cried myself to sleep.
I formed a sort of a “fuck you” attitude towards my parents and came out as gay at school, thinking that maybe if I eased into coming out as trans it would be less of a shock. Although the reaction from my friends was positive, my parents were pissed. They felt like I was attacking their image, and that I was an embarrassment to them. They wanted me to be their perfect little straight christian boy, and that’s obviously not what I wanted.
So they took me out of public school, took away my laptop and phone, and forbid me of getting on any sort of social media, completely isolating me from my friends. This was probably the part of my life when I was the most depressed, and I’m surprised I didn’t kill myself. I was completely alone for 5 months. No friends, no support, no love. Just my parent’s disappointment and the cruelty of loneliness.
At the end of the school year, my parents finally came around and gave me my phone and let me back on social media. I was excited, I finally had my friends back. They were extremely excited to see me and talk to me, but only at first. Eventually they realized they didn’t actually give a shit about me, and I felt even lonelier than I did before. The only friends I thought I had only liked me because they saw me five times a week.
After a summer of having almost no friends plus the weight of having to think about college, save money for moving out, keep my grades up, go to church each week and feel like shit because everyone there is against everything I live for, I have decided I’ve had enough. I’m never going to transition successfully, even when I move out. I’m never going to be happy with the way I look or sound. I’m never going to have enough friends to satisfy me. I’m never going to have enough love to satisfy me. I’m never going to find a man who loves me. I’m never going to be happy. Either I live the rest of my life as a lonely man who wishes he were a woman or I live my life as a lonelier woman who hates herself. There’s no winning. There’s no way out. I’m sad enough already, I don’t need my life to get any worse. People say “it gets better” but that isn’t true in my case. It gets worse. Each day I get worse.
That’s the gist of it, that’s why I feel like killing myself. Sorry if that’s not a good enough reason for you, it’s good enough for me. As for my will, I want 100% of the things that I legally own to be sold and the money (plus my money in the bank) to be given to trans civil rights movements and support groups, I don’t give a shit which one. The only way I will rest in peace is if one day transgender people aren’t treated the way I was, they’re treated like humans, with valid feelings and human rights. Gender needs to be taught about in schools, the earlier the better. My death needs to mean something. My death needs to be counted in the number of transgender people who commit suicide this year. I want someone to look at that number and say “that’s fucked up” and fix it. Fix society. Please.
Goodbye,
(Leelah) Josh Alcorn
Wednesday, September 30, 2015
Trans Teen Surprised By Mom With Her First Hormones
For the transphobes who are trying to push the lie that parents supporting their trans kids is 'child abuse', I offer this in emphatic rebuttal of what you're trying to peddle.
Allowing a trans person to be their true selves is life saving and life affirming.
Peep this video of 14 year old trans feminine child Corey being surprised by her mother with her initial dose of hormones after a 2.5 year wait.
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Wednesday, July 15, 2015
Three Must See Trans TV Events!
Wednesday is going to be an interesting day of television in that you have three shows being broadcast that will be broadcast that feature well known transpeople on them.
First up will be Isis King spending the next few days (Wednesday-Friday) on The Bold and the Beautiful playing Sonya, a friend of Maya Avant's who will also be featured in a fashion show that is being headlined by Maya.
If you're asking who's Maya Avant, she's a major character in the B&B universe that was recently revealed to be trans and is played by Karla Mosley.
Carmen Carrera will also pop up in one of the fashion show episodes as well.
Looking forward to seeing Isis on The Bold and the Beautiful, and I hope they make the Sonya character a recurring role for her.
The ESPY Awards are also on later tonight starting at 7 PM CDT, and they will feature Caitlyn Jenner receiving the Arthur Ashe Courage Award.
There has been some criticism of ESPN for giving the award to the recently out as trans Jenner, with Bob Costas questioning their motivation for doing so.
But as I've told people who have asked for my opinion about it, it's ESPN's call on who gets that award, and anything that humanizes us and shows a transperson doing something positive is a good thing for the community at large.
I'll also be interested in seeing Ms. Jenner, seeing the crowd reaction in the hall from her sporting peers to it and hearing what she has to say about it during her acceptance speech for it.
Then at 9 PM CDT is the long awaited debut of I Am Jazz on TLC.
The reality show features our fave transteen Jazz Jennings and her family as the cameras follow her now 14 year old self as she navigates the world around her.
Jazz is one of the sweetest people you'll ever want to meet along with her mom Jeanette, and I've been looking forward to the debut of this show ever since it was announced that it was going to happen.. I believe once America gets to see the amazing Jennings family onscreen they'll fall in love with Jazz and them.
So if you can't watch any of those shows, you may wish to set your DVD's and check them out later.
TransGriot Note: In the interest of journalistic integrity, need to note that Isis and I both share as of yesterday the same celebrity publicist
First up will be Isis King spending the next few days (Wednesday-Friday) on The Bold and the Beautiful playing Sonya, a friend of Maya Avant's who will also be featured in a fashion show that is being headlined by Maya.
If you're asking who's Maya Avant, she's a major character in the B&B universe that was recently revealed to be trans and is played by Karla Mosley.
Carmen Carrera will also pop up in one of the fashion show episodes as well.
Looking forward to seeing Isis on The Bold and the Beautiful, and I hope they make the Sonya character a recurring role for her.
The ESPY Awards are also on later tonight starting at 7 PM CDT, and they will feature Caitlyn Jenner receiving the Arthur Ashe Courage Award.
There has been some criticism of ESPN for giving the award to the recently out as trans Jenner, with Bob Costas questioning their motivation for doing so.
But as I've told people who have asked for my opinion about it, it's ESPN's call on who gets that award, and anything that humanizes us and shows a transperson doing something positive is a good thing for the community at large.
I'll also be interested in seeing Ms. Jenner, seeing the crowd reaction in the hall from her sporting peers to it and hearing what she has to say about it during her acceptance speech for it.
Then at 9 PM CDT is the long awaited debut of I Am Jazz on TLC.
The reality show features our fave transteen Jazz Jennings and her family as the cameras follow her now 14 year old self as she navigates the world around her.
Jazz is one of the sweetest people you'll ever want to meet along with her mom Jeanette, and I've been looking forward to the debut of this show ever since it was announced that it was going to happen.. I believe once America gets to see the amazing Jennings family onscreen they'll fall in love with Jazz and them.
So if you can't watch any of those shows, you may wish to set your DVD's and check them out later.
TransGriot Note: In the interest of journalistic integrity, need to note that Isis and I both share as of yesterday the same celebrity publicist
Saturday, July 11, 2015
Nicole's 'Royal Pains' Episode
If you missed it, there was a Royal Pains episode that aired on June 23 featuring another of our amazing trans teens in Nicole Maines called 'The Prince of Nucleotides'
I finally got a chance to see some video of her performance courtesy of YouTube, and here it is a scene from it.. If I can find the full episode I'll post it here.
I finally got a chance to see some video of her performance courtesy of YouTube, and here it is a scene from it.. If I can find the full episode I'll post it here.
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