Congratulations to Houston Mayor Annise Parker and First Lady Kathy Hubbard, who made it official and put a ring on the first lady's finger.
Both of them wanted to wait until marriage equality became the law of the land in Texas, but after being in their relationship for 23 years and noting Greg Abbott and his Teapublican friends gearing up to fight the Texas flavored federal marriage cases set to take place in a few weeks to overturn the ban, they decided not to wait any longer and get married in Palm Springs, CA.
"This is a very happy day for us," Mayor Parker said in a statement. "We have had to wait a very long time to formalize our
commitment to each other. Kathy has been by my side for more than two
decades, helping to raise a family, nurture my political career and all
of the other ups and down and life events that come with a committed
relationship."
Of course Harris County GOP chair Jared Woodfill and his merry band of local homophobic haters threw shade at the happy couple, but frak 'em.
Congratulations to the Mayor and H-town's First Lady. May you union continue to be a long, happy and healthy one.
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Friday, January 17, 2014
Sunday, December 15, 2013
Joanne Cassar Honored In Malta
It was a fight that eventually ended up in the European Court of Human Rights, became an election issue in the March 2013 Maltese national elections and with the change of government ended in her favor.
The new Labour government as part of the ECHR case settlement with Cassar introduced legislative changes in Maltese law that recognizes the full human rights of a trans person in the gender they transition to, including the right to marry.
Joanne Cassar was honored for her perseverance since 2006 in this marriage fight, which resulted in not only a personal victory for her, but in the process made Malta a fairer society.
Congratulations Joanne on this well deserved honor and your battle that not only was a victory for you and other Maltese trans people, but will possibly have an impact on the rest of the world when it comes to trans marriage rights cases
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Tuesday, October 22, 2013
I Repeat, You Can't Declare War On Love
Three years ago I wrote a Battlestar Galatica themed post in which I compared the marriage equality fight to my fave sci-fi show.
I noted in that post that the Religious Right can't deal with people of the same gender or trans people falling in love and getting married and for specious political and religious reasons they want to prevent that by any means necessary.
They basically declared war on love. And they are now three years after I wrote the post are conceding they are losing the 'War on Love' they started.
More Americans support same gender marriage now than when I wrote that post in August 2010. President Obama on May 9, 2012 became the first sitting president to publicly support legalizing same-sex marriage. Maine, Maryland and Minnesota legalized it through a popular vote in November 2012. The New Mexico Supreme Court will have a hearing on the issue Wednesday, and Hawaii's Governor Neil Abercrombie (D) has called a special session that starts October 28 in which they will attempt to pass a marriage equality bill.
To add an exclamation point on the positive momentum for marriage equality, New Jersey on Monday became the 14th state in addition to the District of Columbia to allow same gender people to marry.
And in the wake of the SCOTUS rulings overturning DOMA and Prop 8 there are suits being filed in deep red GOP controlled states to overturn their anti-same sex marriage amendments.

On the trans marriage front two of our three signature international marriage cases have gone our way with Joanne Cassar in Malta and Ms W in Hong Kong emerging victorious after a few setbacks, and us Texas transpeeps awaiting the result of Nikki Araguz Loyd's recent appeal in Corpus Christi.
The conservafools still haven't come to grips with the reality of 'you can't declare war on love', are clueless to the fact they on the wrong side of history and still keep fighting the 'War on Love' they will ultimately lose.
I can say that with confidence because the moral arc of the universe is bending toward justice for the SGL, trans and bi community on this issue. We're also just as resolute to keep fighting them on this human rights issue until we can't or until victory is assured.
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Thursday, October 10, 2013
'The New Black' Documentary Trailer
A trailer has finally been released for The New Black and when it hits your town I would recommend you see it.
It discusses how the African-American community is grappling with lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) rights in light of the marriage equality movement and the fight over civil rights.
It also asks the more pertinent question of why are African-Americans, and especially the Black church being made the faces of anti-gay hatred and who benefits from that?
It was filmed during the 2012 marriage equality battle in Maryland and has a few familiar faces in it for me as I watched the trailer. Maryland eventually became one of three states during the 2012 election cycle that approved marriage equality by a 52%-47% margin.
Thursday, September 19, 2013
Congratulations Mr and Mrs Loyd!
They had a few setbacks in getting their marriage license in Harris County last week no thanks to GOP Hater Attorney General Greg Abbott, Harris County Attorney General Vince Ryan (DINO who caved), and Harris County Clerk Stan Stanart (R) but after Nikki handled her Delgado v Araguz appeal hearing business in Corpus Christi, she tied the knot yesterday with her fiance William Loyd on the steps of the Nueces County Courthouse as Rev Michael Cruz performed the ceremony.
I've had the pleasure of meeting Will at the gallery and know for a fact he loves him some Nikki, and the feeling is mutual. So while I'm bummed I wasn't in Corpus for all the fun, I couldn't be happier for both of them since I'm still wandering in the dating Sinai.
Congratulations Mr. and Mrs Loyd! May you have a long, happy and healthy marriage and Nikki, may you prevail in your just fight to have your (and our trans marriage rights in Texas) recognized. .
I've had the pleasure of meeting Will at the gallery and know for a fact he loves him some Nikki, and the feeling is mutual. So while I'm bummed I wasn't in Corpus for all the fun, I couldn't be happier for both of them since I'm still wandering in the dating Sinai.
Congratulations Mr. and Mrs Loyd! May you have a long, happy and healthy marriage and Nikki, may you prevail in your just fight to have your (and our trans marriage rights in Texas) recognized. .
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Wednesday, September 18, 2013
Nikki Araguz's Big Day In Court
Nikki Araguz is in Corpus Christi to appeal the 2010 unjust decision in her Delgado vs Araguz marriage case in Republican Judge Randy Clapp's court in Wharton, TX that voided her marriage to the late Thomas Araguz III.
The appeal will be heard in the Texas 13th District Court of Appeals based in Corpus Christi at 2 PM CDT in front of a panel of three Democratic justices.
Presiding in this case will be Chief Justice Rogelio Valdez, Justice Nora Longoria, and Justice Nelda V. Rodriguez. Both sides in the case will have 20 minutes to make their arguments in the case and if the justices stay true to the American, Texas and Democratic Party principles of fairness and justice, I'm hopeful there's a good chance this appeal will go Nikki's way.
In fact, trans marriage cases on the international level have been on a positive roll lately with the wins in Hong Kong by Ms. W and Joanne Cassar's in Malta. Just hope Nikki can make it three-for-three.
After the hearing, Nikki will be getting married to her fiance and gallery business partner, artist William Loyd on the steps of the courthouse. There was some drama here in Harris County because they were initially denied a marriage license in Harris County no thanks to our oppressive GOP state attorney general Greg Abbott who thinks he's a worthy replacement for Gov. Goodhair (Rick Perry)
In case you're wondering why we Lone Star transpeeps are paying attention to Delgado vs Araguz, it's because it has major implications not only for the legal status of trans people in Texas, this case has the potential to trickle up the legal food chain, eventually land in the SCOTUS and become a national issue.
Whoever loses be it Nikki (unlikely) or the ex-wife, is certainly going to appeal to the full five person Texas Court of Appeals. Then the next step in the process is the Texas Supreme Court which unfortunately has an anti-gay advocate who will probably do what Republicans do in the conservafool dictatorship of Texas. Ignore the law, logic and reason and rule against Nikki based on his personal bigotry and hatred if the case lands there like Randy Clapp did.
Congrats you two, wish I could be there for the fun on both levels and good luck Nikki with the hearing
The appeal will be heard in the Texas 13th District Court of Appeals based in Corpus Christi at 2 PM CDT in front of a panel of three Democratic justices.
Presiding in this case will be Chief Justice Rogelio Valdez, Justice Nora Longoria, and Justice Nelda V. Rodriguez. Both sides in the case will have 20 minutes to make their arguments in the case and if the justices stay true to the American, Texas and Democratic Party principles of fairness and justice, I'm hopeful there's a good chance this appeal will go Nikki's way.
In fact, trans marriage cases on the international level have been on a positive roll lately with the wins in Hong Kong by Ms. W and Joanne Cassar's in Malta. Just hope Nikki can make it three-for-three.
After the hearing, Nikki will be getting married to her fiance and gallery business partner, artist William Loyd on the steps of the courthouse. There was some drama here in Harris County because they were initially denied a marriage license in Harris County no thanks to our oppressive GOP state attorney general Greg Abbott who thinks he's a worthy replacement for Gov. Goodhair (Rick Perry) In case you're wondering why we Lone Star transpeeps are paying attention to Delgado vs Araguz, it's because it has major implications not only for the legal status of trans people in Texas, this case has the potential to trickle up the legal food chain, eventually land in the SCOTUS and become a national issue.
Whoever loses be it Nikki (unlikely) or the ex-wife, is certainly going to appeal to the full five person Texas Court of Appeals. Then the next step in the process is the Texas Supreme Court which unfortunately has an anti-gay advocate who will probably do what Republicans do in the conservafool dictatorship of Texas. Ignore the law, logic and reason and rule against Nikki based on his personal bigotry and hatred if the case lands there like Randy Clapp did.
Congrats you two, wish I could be there for the fun on both levels and good luck Nikki with the hearing
Friday, September 06, 2013
Will Nikki Make It Three For Three For Trans Marriage?
We have seen the successful resolution this year of the trans marriage cases of Ms. W in Hong Kong and Joanne Cassar in Malta. Will Nikki Araguz make it three for three? Been a while since I posted on Nikki's case, but she's alerted me that she's finally going to get her day in court concerning an appeal of her Delgado v Araguz marriage case and the unjust verdict Republican judge Randy Clapp handed down in Wharton two years ago.
Turns out the Texas 13th District Court of Appeals appeals court in Corpus Christi (which is dominated by Democrats) will hear the appeal on September 18.
I'm optimistic she'll have better luck at this level than she did in Randy Clapp's 329th district court.
Good luck Nikki! Hope that the positive bend of the arc of moral universe that was moved by Ms. W and Joanne Cassar bends toward justice for you as well and erases that odious Littleton v Prange precedent forever.
Tuesday, August 13, 2013
Happy Anniversary Wendy and Ignacio
Today is the second wedding anniversary of our Cuban trans sister Wendy Iriepa and her activist hubby Ignacio Estrada, and wanted to wish our Cuban girl like us and her hubby a happy one.
Wendy got married back on August 13, 2011 to her hubby in a very public wedding in Havana in front of the unblinking eye of the world's media with Cuban blogger Yoani Sanchez as a witness.
Iriepa is the first person in that island nation to get a state sanctioned SRS through the CENESEX program run by Mariela Castro.
Iriepa worked for it and was the public face of CENESEX until she and Castro had a public falling out over her attacking her activist hubby, who is the self proclaimed 'number one opponent of the Castro government'.
Happy anniversary Wendy and Ignacio! May you continue to speak truth to power in your homeland and your marriage be a long, happy and healthy one.
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Friday, June 07, 2013
Trans People Make Beautiful Brides And Handsome Grooms
June is considered the start of wedding season, and we transfolks have much to celebrate in that regard in 2013 with two huge international trans marriage rights wins in Malta and Hong Kong.After an up and down emotional seven year legal struggle that eventually saw her case go to the European Court of Human Rights, it took a change of ruling parties in the Maltese government before Joanne Cassar finally won.
Ms. W in Hong Kong's struggle wasn't as protracted, but was just as stressful. She was down to her last legal strike after losing twice in lower court hearings before she prevailed at the most critical Hong Kong judicial level, the Court of Final Appeals.
As part of the diverse mosaic of humanity, transpeople also fall in love, form relationships and desire to get married to their partners. What their genitalia configuration is underneath those bridal gowns and tuxes is none of you transphobic cis people's business as long as the two people saying 'I do' are happy.And if it's a cis person marrying a transperson, that isn't your faith based concern either. If you wish to strengthen the institution of marriage, focus on your own damn marriage and make it the best one it can be instead of sticking your judgmental nose in somebody else's romantic business.
It's also my hope and prayer that some of my POC transwomen who are unecessairly dying due to anti-trans violence will one day get to experience the joy and happiness of not only being bridesmaids in a friend's wedding like I did in 2004, but eventually get married.
And if I do say so myself, we are some beautiful brides and handsome grooms, too.
TransGriot Note: The top photo is of South Koren transwoman Harisu during her 2007 marriage to her longtime boyfriend Micky Jung and the second is of Mexican trans couple Diana and Mario.
Monday, June 03, 2013
Maltese Parliament Debating Trans Marriage Civil Code Changes
As part of the deal they struck with Joanne Cassar in order to end the European Court of Human Rights case she brought against them in June 2011, Malta's parliament began debate on amending that nation's Civil Code so that post operative trans people would be considered as individuals of the acquired gender identity with full rights including the right to marry.
Once the amendments to the Civil Code pass, and the Opposition party has no problem with that as of now, transpeople in Malta would not only be able to get their birth certificates changed, the Public Registry director will be able to issue marriage banns to post-op transgender individuals who express the wish to get married.
Helena Dalli, The
“The government cannot punish these people although they continue
to suffer as a result of prejudice against them,” she said. “It is not
just laws that need to change but attitudes and silence should not
prevail”.
Amen to that. We in the international trans community hope these Civil Code changes are expeditiously passed and Malta continues the process of ensuring all of its trans citizens are treated equally under their nation's laws.
Amen to that. We in the international trans community hope these Civil Code changes are expeditiously passed and Malta continues the process of ensuring all of its trans citizens are treated equally under their nation's laws.
Tuesday, May 14, 2013
Ms W Finally Wins The Right To Marry!
The third time was finally the charm for Ms W in her nearly three year long Hong Kong court battle to marry her boyfriend.
After losing two previous rounds in court, she finally prevailed Monday at the Court of Final Appeals level in a 4-1 decision and won a groundbreaking ruling for transpeople in Hong Kong in the process.
The Registrar of Marriages had argued that because her birth certificate couldn't be altered under Hong Kong law and said she was male, she could not wed her boyfriend.
Ms W argued the previous adverse court rulings were a violation of her constitutional rights and the Hong Kong government subsidized her SRS back in 2008.
"It is contrary to principle to focus merely on biological features fixed at the time of birth," the court said in a written judgement by the panel of five judges.
It added that existing laws "impair the very essence of W's right to marry"
The court said the nature of marriage as a social institution had "undergone far-reaching changes" in a multi-cultural present day Hong Kong.
However, the five judge panel stopped short in this ruling of allowing same gender marriage in Hong Kong.
Ms W according to her attorney Michael Vidler was overjoyed at the landmark ruling, which not only allows her to marry her boyfriend, but orders Hong Kong to rewrite their marriage law to allow trans women to marry cis men and trans men to marry cis women.
Vidler read a statement by the now thritysomething Ms. W to reporters in which she said,"I have lived my life as a woman and been treated as a woman in all respects except as regards my right to marriage. This decision rights that wrong."
"I am very happy that the court of appeal now recognizes my desire to marry my boyfriend one day and that that desire is no different to that of any other women who seek the same here in Hong Kong," W said.
"This is a victory for all women in Hong Kong."
Interestingly enough had Ms W lived in mainland China, she would have been able to get married. China's marriage were changed and clarified in 2003 to allow transpeople to get married to their opposite gender partners. Hong Kong as an autonomous Special Administrative Region is still under British law.
The landmark ruling brings Hong Kong in line on the issue of trans marriage with other Asia-Pacific Rim nations such as mainland China, Singapore, India, South Korea, Japan, Indonesia, Australia and New Zealand. Out of all those Asia-Pacific Rim nations, only New Zealand allows same sex couples to marry.
After Joanne Cassar's win in Malta and this one for Ms. W, can Nikki Araguz make it three in a row for international trans human rights with a trans marriage win here in Texas?
Ms W is going to have to wait another 12 months for the landmark ruling to take effect and give the Hong Kong government time to rewrite the marriage laws, but she'll probably spend that time planning her wedding.
After losing two previous rounds in court, she finally prevailed Monday at the Court of Final Appeals level in a 4-1 decision and won a groundbreaking ruling for transpeople in Hong Kong in the process.
The Registrar of Marriages had argued that because her birth certificate couldn't be altered under Hong Kong law and said she was male, she could not wed her boyfriend.
Ms W argued the previous adverse court rulings were a violation of her constitutional rights and the Hong Kong government subsidized her SRS back in 2008.
"It is contrary to principle to focus merely on biological features fixed at the time of birth," the court said in a written judgement by the panel of five judges.
It added that existing laws "impair the very essence of W's right to marry"
The court said the nature of marriage as a social institution had "undergone far-reaching changes" in a multi-cultural present day Hong Kong.
However, the five judge panel stopped short in this ruling of allowing same gender marriage in Hong Kong.
Ms W according to her attorney Michael Vidler was overjoyed at the landmark ruling, which not only allows her to marry her boyfriend, but orders Hong Kong to rewrite their marriage law to allow trans women to marry cis men and trans men to marry cis women.
Vidler read a statement by the now thritysomething Ms. W to reporters in which she said,"I have lived my life as a woman and been treated as a woman in all respects except as regards my right to marriage. This decision rights that wrong."
"I am very happy that the court of appeal now recognizes my desire to marry my boyfriend one day and that that desire is no different to that of any other women who seek the same here in Hong Kong," W said.
"This is a victory for all women in Hong Kong."
Interestingly enough had Ms W lived in mainland China, she would have been able to get married. China's marriage were changed and clarified in 2003 to allow transpeople to get married to their opposite gender partners. Hong Kong as an autonomous Special Administrative Region is still under British law.The landmark ruling brings Hong Kong in line on the issue of trans marriage with other Asia-Pacific Rim nations such as mainland China, Singapore, India, South Korea, Japan, Indonesia, Australia and New Zealand. Out of all those Asia-Pacific Rim nations, only New Zealand allows same sex couples to marry.
After Joanne Cassar's win in Malta and this one for Ms. W, can Nikki Araguz make it three in a row for international trans human rights with a trans marriage win here in Texas?
Ms W is going to have to wait another 12 months for the landmark ruling to take effect and give the Hong Kong government time to rewrite the marriage laws, but she'll probably spend that time planning her wedding.
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Tuesday, April 16, 2013
Ms W's Final Trans Marriage Legal Appeal Starts
TransGriot Note: Here's another one you can e-mail to Karin Quimby Been keeping up with along with my trans sisters in the Asia-Pacific Rim region and around the world the case of Ms. W ever since it started back in 2010.
It's also an example along with the now resolved Joanne Cassar case of how the same-gender marriage push has deleteriously affected the ability of transwomen in some areas of the world to get married.
She's the transwoman who is now in her 30's that has been fighting a pitched legal battle in Hong Kong to have her rights recognized to marry her boyfriend.
She was back in court on her final two day appeal of this landmark legal case that started Monday (Sunday US time) Ms W is seeking to overturn two previous rulings that went against her and had the effect of keeping the ban on her getting married (along with other transpeople in Hong Kong) in place.
The city's Registrar of Marriages is claiming that since her birth certificate states she was born male and it can't be changed, she is still male despite having government funded SRS in Hong Kong and Ms. W changing all other identity documents to reflect her life as a female.
And as you probably guessed, only marriages between male and female couples are recognized in Hong Kong. Never mind the fact that Ms W has done everything possible including a government funded genital surgery to be recognized as female.
“We say the laws of marriage can and should recognize that sexual identity can change,” W’s attorney David Pannick told the court in his opening arguments.
“The right to marry is fundamental... the birth certificate is a record of historical facts,” he said, adding that W is now “medically, psychologically and socially” a woman.
Pannick said the Registrar of Marriages should recognize his client’s new gender, which is stated in official documents like her identity card and passport, and a denial of her bid to marry violates her constitutional rights.Well, duh. It's obvious to any of us without law degrees looking at it simply on the face of the human rights issues that Hong Kong is violating Ms. W's human and constitutional rights, but unfortunately we aren't the people wearing judicial robes and making the ruling on this case.
And it's even more ironic that if Ms W were living across the border in China and not in the Hong Kong Special Administrative Region that's under British law, she would have been happily married a few years ago.
Here's hoping the judges in this case do the right thing, overturn the two previous jacked up rulings and let our trans sister (and everyone else in Hong Kong who would like to) get married.
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Sunday, April 07, 2013
Joanne Cassar Wins! Maltese Government Drops Objections To Her Right To Marry
After a protracted legal battle that went all the way to the European Court of Human Rights in Strasbourg, France and even became an issue in the recent Maltese election, Joanne Cassar's long fight to have her marriage rights recognized is victorious.
The April 2 news that the Maltese government will amend the Marriage Act so that trans people can marry the partners of their choice according to their acquired gender was greeted with jubilation and relief.
But none were happier than Joanne Cassar, who has been battling the Maltese government in court for seven years to be able to marry her male partner. Cassar won and lost cases in the Maltese court system and eventually took her marriage rights legal wrangle to the ECHR.
She gleefully expressed her satisfaction on social media upon hearing the news that her long battle is finally over.
Cassar even became an issue in the March 9 Maltese election. In a public rally March 2 before Maltese voters went to the polls then Prime Minister Lawrence Gonzi announced in response to an audience question that his ruling Nationalist Party would if re-elected introduce gender recognition legislation in the next parliament. Gonzi also claimed that the reason why the Maltese parliament never discussed the transgender recognition private member's bill tabled by then Opposition MP Evarist Bartolo was lack of time.
Never mind the fact that the Gonzi government had been fighting Cassar tooth and nail in the courts and she called him on it.
Cassar accused the Gonzi administration of exploiting her case for political advantage. She pointed out the hypocrisy of the same government now promising to enact these trans marriage rights fighting to keep the legal obstacles that stood in the way of her ability to get married.She noted the Gonzi government had even filed written submissions against her right to marry in her ECHR case in Strasbourg.
Former Alternattiva Demokratika chairman Michael Briguglio then called upon the Gonzi government to stop officially opposing Joanne Cassar in her bid to marry her partner.
"Not only did the government fail to progress the legislation that was tabled through a private member's bill; but it actually fought Joanne Cassar tooth and nail all the way to the Constitutional Court to deny her the fundamental right to marry her male partner," Briguglio said. "This in spite of clear European Court of Human Rights case-law dating back to 2002 which Malta is obliged to respect."
You know how voters in any country hate hypocritical politicians who also get caught
The Malta Gay Rights Movement's coordinator Gabi Calleja was also happy to hear that the Maltese government finally joined the 21st century and conformed to European law.
"I think it's about time that Joanne Cassar's ordeal was brought to an end, and that we finally conform to European law at least in so far as marriage is concerned."The right of transgender persons to marry in Europe was firmly established in the 2002 precedent setting case Christine Goodwin vs the United Kingdom in which the ECHR held that it found no justification for barring transsexuals from enjoying the right to marry under any circumstances.
Details on the legal amendment will reflect the principle that, by officially recognizing a person's reassigned gender identity through documentation (ID card or driver's license), the State also de facto commits itself to acknowledging and protecting all the rights and privileges associated with that particular gender identity including the right to marry a person of the opposite gender.
Once the legal amendments are in place, the ECHR case filed against Malta by Cassar will be withdrawn, and her legal expenses will be refunded by the State.
Congrats Joanne on winning your long marriage fight that you never should have had to go through in the first place and striking a blow for girls like us around the world.
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Wednesday, March 27, 2013
What The Hell Happened In DC Today?
I had an enjoyable day at HCC-Southeast kicking Trans 101 knowledge this afternoon to a predominately Latin@ and African-American student audience and after arriving home around 4:30 PM CDT took a nap.
When I awakened at approximately 7:30 PM CDT I discovered when I perused my Facebook postings elements of the trans community were pissed off. Interest in my 'Why The Transgender Community Hates HRC' essay post has gone viral to the point that I obliterated my all time single day hit count record on March 26 with 39,027 hits and there is a level of anger at the Human Rights Campaign I haven't seen since former Rep. Barney Frank stripped trans people out of ENDA combined with Joe Solmonese getting caughtmisspeaking lying at the 2007 Southern Comfort Conference in the ATL.
And yes, looking like I'm going to have to get busy finishing that sequel to the 2007 essay that I tentatively titled 'Why The Trans Community Loathes HRC'.
The big unconfirmed rumor I'm hearing that is stoking the fresh wave of anger in elements of the trans community is that it is being alleged a group of transpeople at today's Washington DC Marriage Equality rally were supportively waving the trans community flag and were told by someone presumed to be an HRC staffer or someone connected with the event to stop doing so. The person is also alleged to have said according to the rumor spreading on the Net that "Marriage Equality is not a transgender issue."
Okay, if you were or know the person the alleged incident happened to and you have video of the alleged incident to prove it happened, come out of the shadows and talk to a reporter and get it on the record. If you have the video or pics of the alleged incident, that needs to be posted ASAP.
If it didn't happen that way, then you're about to earn a Shut Up Fool award nomination. As far as I'm concerned in terms of flags, this is the only flag that should have been flown at the SCOTUS rally, anyway.
What heightens my skepticism about this incident is the graphic refers to HRC as the Human Rights COALITION. HRC is the Human Rights CAMPAIGN. The lack of video in an era when just about everyone and their grandmother on this planet is armed with cellphones with videotaping capability also has me in 'things that make you go hmm' mode.
But HRC, let's be real. While you have made some incremental progress in terms of improving your image in the community, there is still smoldering trans anger about being thrown under the ENDA bus in 2007 coupled with your long negative history of trans oppression that has many of us (TransGriot included) looking at you with side-eyed suspicion. The perception of overemphasis on marriage equality to the exclusion of other more pressing issues on the GLBT rights menu such as ENDA, immigration reform, trans human rights, and HIV/AIDS just to name a few issues combined with leadership ranks that look like a Republican party convention haven't helped either.
Don't even get me started talking about what the perceptions of the non-white trans and SGL community are concerning HRC and the marriage equality issue.
But as to the comment that marriage isn't a transgender issue, my response is you're kidding me, right?
It is when trans marriages are the collateral damage from the predominately vanillacentric privileged push for same gender marriage.
I support marriage equality and want to see DOMA die but I'm lukewarm about it. I have to note that trans people had the ability to get married to their cis partners until the 1996 passage of DOMA and the 2003 GL full court press for gay marriage started having a deleterious effect on trans people's ability to get married.
Think I'm kidding about that? Ask my Lone Star State homegirls Christie Lee Littleton and Nikki Araguz, Ms W in Hong Kong, Joanne Cassar in Malta or Kimah Nelson and Jason Stenson in New York City.
I'm sure that the truth will come out about what really happened at that rally today, but note Human Rights Campaign, you still have a very long and tough road to travel before you even begin to get some positive cred back and you have zero room for errors, misspeaking, or mistakes.
When I awakened at approximately 7:30 PM CDT I discovered when I perused my Facebook postings elements of the trans community were pissed off. Interest in my 'Why The Transgender Community Hates HRC' essay post has gone viral to the point that I obliterated my all time single day hit count record on March 26 with 39,027 hits and there is a level of anger at the Human Rights Campaign I haven't seen since former Rep. Barney Frank stripped trans people out of ENDA combined with Joe Solmonese getting caught
And yes, looking like I'm going to have to get busy finishing that sequel to the 2007 essay that I tentatively titled 'Why The Trans Community Loathes HRC'.
Okay, if you were or know the person the alleged incident happened to and you have video of the alleged incident to prove it happened, come out of the shadows and talk to a reporter and get it on the record. If you have the video or pics of the alleged incident, that needs to be posted ASAP.
If it didn't happen that way, then you're about to earn a Shut Up Fool award nomination. As far as I'm concerned in terms of flags, this is the only flag that should have been flown at the SCOTUS rally, anyway.
What heightens my skepticism about this incident is the graphic refers to HRC as the Human Rights COALITION. HRC is the Human Rights CAMPAIGN. The lack of video in an era when just about everyone and their grandmother on this planet is armed with cellphones with videotaping capability also has me in 'things that make you go hmm' mode.
But HRC, let's be real. While you have made some incremental progress in terms of improving your image in the community, there is still smoldering trans anger about being thrown under the ENDA bus in 2007 coupled with your long negative history of trans oppression that has many of us (TransGriot included) looking at you with side-eyed suspicion. The perception of overemphasis on marriage equality to the exclusion of other more pressing issues on the GLBT rights menu such as ENDA, immigration reform, trans human rights, and HIV/AIDS just to name a few issues combined with leadership ranks that look like a Republican party convention haven't helped either.
Don't even get me started talking about what the perceptions of the non-white trans and SGL community are concerning HRC and the marriage equality issue.
But as to the comment that marriage isn't a transgender issue, my response is you're kidding me, right? It is when trans marriages are the collateral damage from the predominately vanillacentric privileged push for same gender marriage.
I support marriage equality and want to see DOMA die but I'm lukewarm about it. I have to note that trans people had the ability to get married to their cis partners until the 1996 passage of DOMA and the 2003 GL full court press for gay marriage started having a deleterious effect on trans people's ability to get married.
Think I'm kidding about that? Ask my Lone Star State homegirls Christie Lee Littleton and Nikki Araguz, Ms W in Hong Kong, Joanne Cassar in Malta or Kimah Nelson and Jason Stenson in New York City.
I'm sure that the truth will come out about what really happened at that rally today, but note Human Rights Campaign, you still have a very long and tough road to travel before you even begin to get some positive cred back and you have zero room for errors, misspeaking, or mistakes.
Labels:
marriage,
marriage equality,
transgender issues
Friday, January 25, 2013
Joanne Cassar Is Still Fighting For Her Human Rights
I've been curious to find out what has been transpiring in Joanne Cassar of Malta's life since I wrote my last post on her now seven year roller coaster battle for her right to marry that started in 2006.
She took her case to the European Court of Human Rights where it was heard in July 2012, and she is now awaiting a ruling on it.
Still haven't seen anything yet concerning a ruling from the ECHR, but did stumble across a recent Times of Malta article featuring her and detailing some of the foul transphobic crap that has been aimed her way in that European island nation as she fights for her human rights.
Yeah, I feel your pain Joanne. And that's why we're fighting all over the globe to make trans human rights a reality all over the planet so our transkids don't have to endure the crap we've had to deal with. .
She took her case to the European Court of Human Rights where it was heard in July 2012, and she is now awaiting a ruling on it.
Still haven't seen anything yet concerning a ruling from the ECHR, but did stumble across a recent Times of Malta article featuring her and detailing some of the foul transphobic crap that has been aimed her way in that European island nation as she fights for her human rights.
In the past the 31-year-old, who underwent gender reassignment surgery nine years ago, has even been beaten up because of who she is. The latest violent episode was three years ago when she was at a carnival party in Gozo.
“I was walking off the dance floor. I was hit on the head with a bottle and kicked in my chest and stomach. They stole my bag,” she recalled, adding she did not see the point in filing a police report.
“What would I get out of it? I’d end up having to go to court repeatedly… and if I had to file a report each time I’m insulted, I might as well move into the police station,” she said.
“When I sense trouble I tell the bouncer or leave the club, even if it means crying myself to sleep. I try to make it look like I don’t care, but I do. Some people hate people like me and I don’t know why,” she said.
“But my greatest disappointment is that we are in 2013 and I’ve been fighting for a human right for seven years,” she said, referring to a pending case before the European Court of Human Rights where she is fighting for the right to marry.
Yeah, I feel your pain Joanne. And that's why we're fighting all over the globe to make trans human rights a reality all over the planet so our transkids don't have to endure the crap we've had to deal with. .
Labels:
civil rights,
Europe,
Malta,
marriage,
trans human rights,
transwoman
Wednesday, July 18, 2012
Chik-Fil-A Comes Out...
As an Anti-gay oppressor
For those of you who love their waffle fries, nuggets, and chicken sandwiches (and yeah I'm guilty as charged on that), consider this the next time you're making your choices of how to spend your hard earned rainbow dollars and t-bills at a local neighborhood fast food restaurant.
Chik-Fil-A president and COO Dan Cathy finally came out of the closet about the chain being anti-gay.
"Well, guilty as charged." Cathy flippantly said in an interview with the Baptist Press.
It was obvious there was a problem based on their WinShape Foundation donations to anti gay groups such as Exodus International ($1,000), TheFamily Fascist Research Council ($1,000) and $1,188,380 to the Marriage and Family Foundation
But the pushback from the rainbow community is just as strong. I suggested that Chik-Fil-A franchises be protested by rainbow community members for their anti-same gender marriage stance.
Maybe the process can get started by having sit-ins, kiss-ins, pray-ins featuring liberal-progressive pastors and gay couples walking into their various locations dressed in wedding attire.
I'm just sayin'.
In addition to the scathing commentary coming from the rainbow blogosphere about Cathy's homobigoted comments, in February Northeastern University halted plans to open a Chik-Fil-A restaurant on its campus.
An online petition created by NYU freshman student Hillary Dworkowski has garnered over 5,000 signatures and calls for the school to close its Chik-Fil-A franchise that is reportedly the only one in Manhattan.
So yep, it's on between the rainbow community and Chik-Fil-A and I'll have to get my chicken sandwiches from Mickey D's for the foreseeable future.
For those of you who love their waffle fries, nuggets, and chicken sandwiches (and yeah I'm guilty as charged on that), consider this the next time you're making your choices of how to spend your hard earned rainbow dollars and t-bills at a local neighborhood fast food restaurant.
Chik-Fil-A president and COO Dan Cathy finally came out of the closet about the chain being anti-gay.
"Well, guilty as charged." Cathy flippantly said in an interview with the Baptist Press.It was obvious there was a problem based on their WinShape Foundation donations to anti gay groups such as Exodus International ($1,000), The
But the pushback from the rainbow community is just as strong. I suggested that Chik-Fil-A franchises be protested by rainbow community members for their anti-same gender marriage stance.
Maybe the process can get started by having sit-ins, kiss-ins, pray-ins featuring liberal-progressive pastors and gay couples walking into their various locations dressed in wedding attire.
I'm just sayin'.
In addition to the scathing commentary coming from the rainbow blogosphere about Cathy's homobigoted comments, in February Northeastern University halted plans to open a Chik-Fil-A restaurant on its campus.
An online petition created by NYU freshman student Hillary Dworkowski has garnered over 5,000 signatures and calls for the school to close its Chik-Fil-A franchise that is reportedly the only one in Manhattan.
So yep, it's on between the rainbow community and Chik-Fil-A and I'll have to get my chicken sandwiches from Mickey D's for the foreseeable future.
Wednesday, June 06, 2012
Still Fighting For Our Trans Marriage Rights
Since June is considered the traditional start of wedding season, and #GirlsLikeUs make some beautiful brides, thought this would be a perfect time to remind 'errbody' that we still have several trans marriage cases percolating around the world.Unfortunately, due to the same gender marriage push, our ongoing trans marriage fights have increasingly been entangled, conflated and negatively impacted by the politics surrounding the conservafool backlash against marriage equality.
Just a few updates on the three ongoing trans marriage cases that have gotten international attention.
Nikki Araguz's case is still percolating at the Texas appeals court level and we're waiting a ruling on this round of it after GOP judge Randy Clapp invalidated her marriage. The judges at the Thirteenth Court of Appeals level are Democrats based in Kingsville, TX, a suburb of Corpus Christi, so stay tuned, this could get interesting.
On the other side of the Pacific in Hong Kong, Ms W is gearing up for another legal round in her ongoing fight to marry her boyfriend. She has lost two legal rounds in this case, most recently in October 2011. She is now at the highest level of Kong Kong jurisprudence, the Court of Final Appeal.
In Europe, Joanne Cassar has taken her case to the European Court of Human Rights after exhausting all her legal options in Malta where she's won and lost rulings.
Yes, trans rights are human rights, and we deserve to pursue our opportunities to achieve happiness without interference from you haters. That includes the ability to marry the person we love as well.
Labels:
international,
marriage,
trans human rights
Tuesday, May 29, 2012
Rani Found Not Guilty In 2010 Pakistan Marriage Case
Remember Rani, the Pakistani transwoman who was arrested during a raid of her northwest Pakistan birthday party and falsely accused of attempting to enter into a same gender marriage with Malik Iqbal two years ago?I cited this as a example of the annoying pattern of 'gayjacking' trans lives by GL advocacy organizations, the gay media and the Gayosphere to advance the narrow policy agenda of the vanillacentric GL community.
Yeah, yeah, I and 'errbody' else in the Transosphere and our enlightened allies know that a transwoman and cismale getting married is NOT a same gender marriage. So do elements of the GL community who shadily try to co-opt and 'gayjack' these types of news stories for their benefit.
But work with me people on this one and continue reading.
Some good news has come out of Pakistan in the wake of that initial burst of international publicity and attention surrounding the case Turns out the charges had to be dropped because prosecutors could find no evidence of Rani attempting to get married. In addition, Iqbal already had two wives and wasn't looking to add a third. He was simply at the party to help celebrate Rani's birthday. .
Iqbal told reporters he will file a defamation case against the former chief of the Faqirabad police station who had leveled the charges against him.
But happiest of all for our Pakistani transsister Rani whose name has been cleared in this jacked up case as well that should have never happened in the first place.
Labels:
Asia,
gayjacking,
legal/justice,
marriage,
Pakistan,
transgender issues
Sunday, May 20, 2012
NBJC Commends the NAACP’s Support of Marriage Equality
TransGriot Note: The press release from the National Black Justice Coalition concerning the NAACP resolution supporting marriage equality.
Yesterday the NAACP released a resolution supporting marriage equality. The organization’s board of directors voted to support the freedom to marry as a continuation of its commitment to equal protection under the law. The National Black Justice Coalition (NBJC), the nation’s leading Black lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) civil rights organization, commends the NAACP for this historic step.
Yesterday the NAACP released a resolution supporting marriage equality. The organization’s board of directors voted to support the freedom to marry as a continuation of its commitment to equal protection under the law. The National Black Justice Coalition (NBJC), the nation’s leading Black lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) civil rights organization, commends the NAACP for this historic step.
“As a Life
Member of the NAACP, I am happy to see the organization join the President of
the United States in ‘evolving’ and follow the powerful example of civil rights
icons and Black voices like Rev. Dr. Joseph Lowery, Julian Bond, Rev. Al
Sharpton, Rev. Dr. Michael Eric Dyson and others who have said committed LGBT
couples and families deserve the same protections as everyone else,” says
Sharon Lettman-Hicks, NBJC Executive Director and CEO. “Family is the epicenter
of Black life, community and culture. For Black LGBT people, its importance is
just as great.”
The NAACP has
addressed civil rights with regard to marriage since Loving v. Virginia
declared anti-miscegenation laws unconstitutional in 1967. In recent years the
organization has taken public positions against state and federal efforts to
ban the rights and privileges for LGBT citizens, including strong opposition to
Proposition 8 in California, the Defense of Marriage Act, and most recently,
North Carolina’s Amendment 1, which instituted a constitutional ban on marriage
for same-sex couples.
Studies show that Black lesbian partners parent at almost
the same rate as Black heterosexual couples. In comparison to their white counterparts, both Black gay and lesbian
couples are more likely to be raising children. Robbed of the 1,138 federal protections and benefits
available to married couples, including Social Security survivors benefits, Medicaid spend-down protections, and workers' compensation, Black
same-sex families are disproportionately put in harm’s way. Despite these challenges, Black gay men and
lesbians continue to care for children in need of a loving and supportive home.
According to the LGBT Families of Color: Facts at a Glance Report, same-sex partners who become foster parents are more likely to be families of color than among heterosexual married couples. Yet 40 states plus the District of Columbia are silent on fostering by LGBT parents, while 2 states restrict it. Same-sex couples also face uncertainty about joint adoption in 28 states and are prohibited entirely in 5 other states.
According to the LGBT Families of Color: Facts at a Glance Report, same-sex partners who become foster parents are more likely to be families of color than among heterosexual married couples. Yet 40 states plus the District of Columbia are silent on fostering by LGBT parents, while 2 states restrict it. Same-sex couples also face uncertainty about joint adoption in 28 states and are prohibited entirely in 5 other states.
“Outdated anti-gay laws and mindsets disproportionately
undermine Black families,” adds Lettman-Hicks. “When you deny loving and
committed same-sex couples equal protection under the law, you’re inflicting an
even greater blow on LGBT families of color whose challenges are compounded by both
race and orientation.
As a voice of
Black leadership, the NAACP can help the country understand that the fight for
equality isn’t about ‘Black vs. gay,’ but that there are loving couples and
families at the intersection who are a part of the Black/African American
narrative.”
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The National Black Justice Coalition
(NBJC) is a civil rights organization dedicated to empowering Black lesbian,
gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) people. NBJC’s mission is to end racism
and homophobia.
Labels:
African American issues,
GLBT issues,
marriage,
NAACP,
NBJC,
press release
Saturday, May 19, 2012
NAACP BOD Resolution Affirming Support For Same Gender Marriage
The NAACP convention will be in my beloved hometown in July. In advance of that event in which President Obama will speak to the assembled delegates at the George R, Brown Convention Center came this news out of Miami.The NAACP's Board of Directors are meeting there and a resolution was passed on a 62-2 vote that affirms their support for same gender marriage.
The NAACP Constitution affirmatively states our objective to ensure the “political, educational, social and economic equality” of all people. Therefore, the NAACP has opposed and will continue to oppose any national, state, local policy or legislative initiative that seeks to codify discrimination or hatred into the law or to remove the Constitutional rights of LGBT citizens. We support marriage equality consistent with equal protection under the law provided under the Fourteenth Amendment of the United States Constitution. Further, we strongly affirm the religious freedoms of all people as protected by the First Amendment.
“The mission of the NAACP has always been to ensure the political, social and economic equality of all people,” said Roslyn M. Brock, Chairman of the Board of Directors of the NAACP. “We have and will oppose efforts to codify discrimination into law.”
“Civil marriage is a civil right and a matter of civil law. The NAACP’s support for marriage equality is deeply rooted in the Fourteenth Amendment of the United States Constitution and equal protection of all people” said Benjamin Todd Jealous, President and CEO of the NAACP.
Pay attention people. This is one of the African-American community's iconic organizations.
So you know what's going to happen the next time I hear that bull feces laden 'the African-American community is uniquely homophobic' meme come out of someone's vanillacentric privilege laden mouth don't you?
Alright, NAACP!.
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