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Saturday, July 25, 2020

Rest In Power, Eli

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Was saddened to learn about losing another longtime friend and fellow blogger to cancer. 

I first got yo know Eli as part of the intrepid group of loyal Democrats who in the wake of that 2004 reelection of GW Bush, did battle on the Kicking Ass blog with the conservafools coming to gloat about his win and their premature declarations that liberalism and the Democratic Party were dead.

When I finally joined Facebook, was happy to discover all my KA friends were on this platform and happily reconnected with him.

You may recall TransGriot readers that Eli was one of the peeps who competed with me and Michael Watts for a couple of seasons in our ongoing NFL prognostication contest.

My condolences to his family, friends and all who loved him.


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Eli Whitney Blake III passed away peacefully on July 10, 2020 in Phoenix, AZ after a heroic battle with neuroendocrine cancer. He was 57. Eli was born August 7, 1962 in Albuquerque, NM to Dr. Henry W. Blake and Fay F. Blake, both who preceded him in death. He was a curious boy who won school spelling bees and enjoyed board games and baseball, and was a voracious reader of encyclopedias and atlases. He attended Temple Albert in Albuquerque, where he was Bar Mitzvaed in 1975. He attended Sandia High School, where he was a member of the Chess Club and the ROTC among his many activities. He graduated in 1980. He attended New Mexico Tech in Socorro, NM, where he studied Math and Chemistry, graduating in 1985 with a double major. He was baptized into the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints the same year. While at Tech, he played Rugby, and he also began developing his life-long interest in politics and social justice and worked for local democratic candidates. He continued his education and political activism at the University of Montana in Missoula where he graduated with a MS in Statistics. He considered continuing for a PhD, but decided to return to the southwest to become an educator, a passion to which he dedicated the rest of his life. His first teaching job was in Phoenix but he soon returned to Albuquerque and began teaching at TVI – a technical community college – in 1991. At TVI, he was active on the Faculty Senate, and was instrumental in starting the employee union, something he was very proud of accomplishing – he believed strongly in unions and “never crossed a picket line.” While at TVI, he married Tressa Dennis, whom he had reconnected with in Socorro during a visit in 1986. They married in 1992 in Cedar City, UT, and began their life together with their daughter Valorie in Las Lunas, NM. Shortly thereafter, the young family settled in Moriarty, NM, and welcomed the twins – Leah and Maranda – in 1996. He left TVI in 1997 and, after a short detour in Corpus Christi TX at Del Mar Community College, they settled in Joseph City, AZ where he began his career with the Northern Pioneer Community College (NPC) system, which primarily serves the Navajo Nation in Northern Arizona. For the rest of his life, he was dedicated to the Navajo community, serving both as an outstanding educator and a community advocate for the people of the reservation. He was also a very dedicated father, and enjoyed supporting them in every way – from helping develop their academic, social, and spiritual interests to uplifting their entire community through his generosity and engagement. In Joseph City, he was active in the LDS Allen’s Camp Ward, and was engaged in a range of social and political work in the community. He was the Democratic Precinct Committee (PC) person and worked on numerous local, state, and national campaigns, including campaigns for Paul Babbitt and Ann Kirkpatrick; he served as the Navajo County Democratic Party Chair in 2012 when Kirkpatrick was elected. He was always out canvassing, registering people to vote, attending political events, and eagerly engaging in political debate on a wide range of issues. He was a prolific blogger, starting his blog “Deep Thought” in the early 2000s, and was recognized by the AZ State Press Association in 2006 in the lead-up to the Obama election. All of it led back to his beloved family and community. From purchasing geometry textbooks for his daughters’ entire 9th grade class to serving on the Joseph City Fire Board to going door-to-door on the reservation for the US Census to his 20 year commitment to the Arizona Republic through his paper route, he was a ubiquitous presence in the lives of all he touched and will be greatly missed. He is survived by his daughters, Leah Blake and Maranda Blake of Gilbert, AZ, Valorie Brooks and her husband Hunter Brooks and their daughters, April, Andrea, Brooklyn, and Baylee of Joseph City, and by Tressa Blake of Joseph City, his sister, Miriam Blake and her wife Sue Hine of High Point, NC, and best friend, Misti Lee of Show Low, AZ.
A Celebration of Life for Eli will be held in a future month when COVID has receded and it is safe for all those who want to attend to be together and celebrate his memory.
The family requests that donations be made in his name to either the Midwest Food Bank Arizona Division - please note the donation should be directed to Helping Hands for the Navajo Nation in his name
or the Neuroendocrine Tumor Research Foundation (https://netrf.org/get-involved/give-now/)
We will be holding a memorial after Covid-19 has calmed down a little bit. We will post more information about his memorial at a later date. ***

Rest in power El.



Wednesday, July 08, 2020

Still Love And Miss You, Renee

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I'm a little down today because I just realized that my north of the border homegirl Renee Martin has been gone for a year as of today.

And while I know that she is with the ancestors and is no longer suffering from the cancer that took her life (Eff Cancer), deep down I wish she'd had a little more time to be on this plane of existence with us.  I still have her number programmed in my phone because I can't bring myself to the point of deleting it.

The last time I talked to Dawn Wilson, we both talked about how much we missed Renee.

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There are days that when I hear of some political shadiness going down in Alberta, I can hear her saying in a voice dripping with disdain "that wretched province'.   She wasn't a fan of Doug Ford either, and the last time I had a long conversation with her last March we spent a good ten to fifteen minutes dragging Trump and being concerned about my safety as the anti-trans violence on this side of the border hit epidemic levels.  .

I miss those long conversations we had about every subject under the sun from politics to womanism  to Olympic women's hockey.   I miss her talking about the travails of being the only feminine life form in a house filled with masculine ones. 

I even  miss the phone call and the good natured trash talking that would would come from her whenever the Canadian women's hockey team beat the US women.

And yes, we've had multiple conversations about racism, Canadian style, fauxgressives. and white feminist fails. 

I can only imagine what she'd say if she were still here instead of resting in power.   We'd have a lot to talk about in terms of how Orange Foolius has taken us from superpower to banana republic in three years.    Last year's Canadian national elections and the NDP.  How her boys are not so little any more.

There would also be additional barbs directed at the Republican misleadership of my beloved home state she called Baja Alberta

She wasn't a fan of the TERFs, so I imagine that she'd be dragging JK Rowling and the rest of the TERFKarens almost as hard as I have been.

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She also would have been hilariously commenting about how Melania was making goo goo eyes at Prime Minister Justin Trudeau.

And I know she was just as proud of my elevated national media profile as I was proud of her for her multiple published op-eds in The Guardian and speaking before the St Catharines City Council. 



Before she passed she was working on getting me north of the border to speak at an International Women's Day event in the St Catharines area.

This is going to be a rough day to get through.   It also comes just two days before her July 11 birthday.

Still love and miss you,  Renee.

Tuesday, September 06, 2016

Happy 10th Blogiversary Holy Bullies and Headless Monsters!

Eight months after I founded TransGriot on January 1, on September 6, 2006 South Carolina based blogger Alvin McEwen was founding his now decade old award winning blog entitled Holy Bullies and Headless Monsters.

The blog was initially started by McEwen as an effort to support a book of the same name that Alvin was trying to get published that discussed the anti-gay industry, but turned out to be far more successful than the book was according to Alvin.

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I finally got to meet him and Pam Spaulding at Netroots Nation 2012 in Providence, and had a blast getting to know him and discussing with him and Pam some of the issues impacting our community at the time.   I also have the pleasure from time to time of chatting with my fellow Southern blogging colleague on a somewhat regular basis.

Holy Bullies and Headless Monsters has done such a great job of calling out the tactics of the anti-gay right, he has become after Joe Jervis of Joe My God, the other LGBTQ blogger they love to hate  

McEwen's blog has also been nominated twice (2014-2015) for GLAAD Media  Awards, and there are times I link to him for his take on the issues of the faux Christians and their ongoing facts free attacks on our LGBTQ community and other subjects.

Happy blogiversary Alvin and congrats on 10 years of publishing success for your blog. It is needed and even more necessary now than it was when it started.

May you have continued success in exposing the facts free hypocrisy and outright blasphemous lies of the anti-LGBTQ industry.




Wednesday, March 09, 2016

Help A Pioneering Blogger Out

One of the people who was instrumental in giving my nascent blog a leg up back in 2006 was when Pam Spaulding graciously ave me a link on her wildly popular and award winning Pam's House Blend blog .

I thoroughly enjoyed getting to meet her and Alvin McEwen during the 2012 Netroots Nation and personally thanking her for doing that.    Pam is a beloved and well respected figure in our ranks, and it saddened me to hear that due to health issues she closed down the Blend after nine years.

Those same health issues that caused her to close down Pam's House Blend have now caused her to lose a longtime job she had, and she's going to need a little help from us to get her through this fiscal crunch she's in.

So if you can help a blogging sister out, please do so.   Link is here.

Monday, May 19, 2014

Matt Kailey 1955-2014

Photo: RIP my dear, sweet friendWas stunned to hear the news that one of my fellow bloggers and trans human rights activists in Matt Kailey passed away Saturday night-early Sunday morning of heart failure.

From Matt's sister: 

"I wanted to let you know that Matt Kailey, my brother, has passed away. He died of heart failure in his sleep Saturday night/early Sunday morning. His untimely and unexpected passing has been a shock. With the help of family and friends, I am currently working on processing this tragedy and making arrangements. I will post more information at a later time. Thank you for being Matt's friends."


Matt transitioned in 1997, and his Tranifesto blog was one of the destinations that people went to for information, advice and to get knowledge on the trans journey from the transmasculine point of view.

The Denver, CO based Kailey was the author of Just Add Hormones: An Insider's Guide to The Transsexual Experience (Beacon Press), a Lambda Literary Award finalist and Rocky Mountain News local bestseller, and Teeny Weenies and Other Short Subjects , a collection of humorous and heartfelt essays about his life before and after transition. In addition, his work has appeared in numerous publications, from anthologies to professional journals. Matt was also a media personality who appeared on local and national radio and television, in local and national print publications, and in five documentary films.

Mat Kailey will be missed in our trans human rights ranks and in our community.  Final arrangements are pending, and as soon as I'm aware of them the news will be posted to this blog. 

Rest in power and peace Matt. 

Saturday, September 28, 2013

Jahaira's Mission-To Thine Own Self Be True

Congratulations Jahaira on three years of video blogging and One Love right back at you sis!  

This one has an interesting message that we need to constantly think about as trans people in terms of being true to our own selves.

Monday, July 08, 2013

It's Pam's Milestone Birthday Today!

Pam Spaulding that is!

Today is a milestone birthday for her, and it's kind of a bittersweet one for fans of Pam's House Blend.

After nine years of writing, she compiled her last post on it July 1.  While we miss her daily commentary on the issues of the day and understand the reason why she shut down the Blend, her voice and insightful commentary on many issues is still missed in the Blogosphere.

She still pops up from time to time on social media and I couldn't let today pass without wishing my blogging idol and shero a very happy birthday.

Happy birthday Pam!  May it be full of blessings and you continue to have more of them. 

Saturday, October 13, 2012

2012 Women's Media Center Social Media Award Voting Commences

As part of this year's Women's Media Awards, the Women's Media Center is opening the voting of its Social Media Award to the public.  

I wasn't nominated for this one (this time) but I do want to get the word out about this and get you to cast your votes before the October 29 closing date for one of the nineteen incredible bloggers, social media gurus, activists, and new media makers for gender justice.

The winner will be honored at the Women's Media Awards on November 13, 2012 in New York City.

I do have a tough choice to make before the voting closes .  I personally know four of the nineteen outstanding nominees for the Social Media Award. .

Pam Spaulding of Pam's House Blend,  Tamara Winfrey Harris of What Tami Said , Janet Mock of JanetMock.com and Kimberley McLeod of ELIXHER.com are all deservedly nominated in what is a high quality competition chock full of deserving winners..

You can cast your votes here and you can only do it one time     

Wednesday, July 11, 2012

It's Renee's Birthday!

Another July 11 has arrived and that means my Timmy's Ice Capp drinking Coach purse loving homegirl has made it through another 365 days (366 in a leap year) to celebrate the day she arrived on this planet north of the 49th parallel. 

It's Renee of Womanist Musings birthday, and I definitely will not let this auspicious occasion pass without reminding her (especially after that post she wrote on my recently passed milestone birthday) she is another year closer to a milestone birthday of her own (snicker, snicker).

But she also knows I have much love, admiration and respect for her, too.  I hope those testosterone based lifeforms in her house are treating her like the queen she is and taking Renee out for her favorite dinner.  

I also hope the unhusband, Mayhem and Destruction are giving her the peace and quiet and many gifts she deserves on her special day as well.

She has been a wonderful friend to me as well, has given me some sage advice as I continue my evolutionary feminine journey and when I needed them, some long distance motivational kicks in the behind.   

Renee is admired and loved by many of her fellow bloggers in the Afrosphere as well.  I look forward to the day I finally get the opportunity to visit her part of the world and give her the hug she so richly deserves.

It's your birthday sis.  Enjoy it, and may you have many more.  . 


Sunday, July 08, 2012

Happy Birthday Pam!

Wasn't going to let today pass without wishing one of my fave people in the blogging world a happy birthday. No, it's not my Canadian homegirl's birthday yet.   That's later this week

Today is Pam Spaulding's birthday, the creative genius and founder of Pam's House Blend.  I finally got to meet her during Netroots Nation and give her the hug and thank you for being one of the first major blogs to link to my then fledgling blog six years ago and give it a traffic boost. .

She is one sweet lady with a wicked sense of humor, and I enjoyed hanging around and talking to her about a long list of subjects during that conference

But today is all about you.

Happy birthday Pam!  May it be full of blessings and you have many more of them.

Thursday, June 16, 2011

Now I Understand Why 'Paula Brooks' Was Tripping

I've been following the cacastorm brewing in the Gayosphere about the LezGetReal blog and its editor Paula Brooks being revealed as a 58 year old straight white male named Bill Graber from Dayton, OH.

The only time I crossed swords with 'Paula Brooks' was back during the US Senate special election last year in Massachusetts between Scott Brown and Martha Coakley.   A post was written in which 'she' advised voters in the state to sit out that election that I lambasted 'her' on.

Are you fracking crazy? It is never a smart play for a minority group to sit out an election.

I don't care how mad or upset you get with the party hierarchy, or couch your displeasure with 'tough love' rhetoric, you're not 'punishing them' by sitting out the election, you're punishing yourselves.


So when this news broke, decided just for grins to see if I'd written anything pro or con on TransGriot concerning 'Paula Brooks' and found that post.

Upon further review, I now understand why 'Paula Brooks' was tripping.


Far from helping the GL community and the Gayosphere as Graber claimed was the motivation for founding LezGetReal, it's harmed the credibility of the bloggers representing and speaking for it.

In hindsight, should have suspected it after that episode, but 'hate on Obama and the Democrats' rhetoric was prevalent in the white gay community at the time.  LezGetReal wasn't one of the blogs I read on a regular basis to be able to compare and contrast it to other lesbian oriented blogs and detect something out of kilter.

I say that because I've had regular experience since I first started venturing into online conversations back in the late 90's ferreting out fake Black people and fake Democrats.  One of the things we constantly battle in Afrosphere blog comment threads and our discussion sites is white peeps trying to pass themselves off as African Americans.  

For the most part they stick out like sore thumbs because they quickly start drifting into stereotypes and vanilla flavored conservaspeak.

When they do that, it sets off the alarm klaxons since we already know that less than 10 percent of our peeps support the GOP but they don't.   After we start peppering them with questions that only African Americans immersed in our culture would know, they trip themselves up rather quickly

But one of the conversations they're having at Netroots Nation right now amongst the Gayosphere bloggers there is this situation, and no thanks to Graber, it's a travesty they are.