Showing posts with label anti-transgender hate. Show all posts
Showing posts with label anti-transgender hate. Show all posts

Friday, November 19, 2010

Thailand's First TDOR Ceremony

The 'Land of Smiles' has the most well known and open trans community on the planet, but surprisingly until this year had never had a TDOR memorial ceremony.


Prempreeda Pramoj Na Ayutthaya and the Thai Transgender Alliance decided to change that this year.   She organized Thailand's first TDOR which was held in Bangkok's Centara Grand Hotel.   It's also talking place as the Miss International Queen trans pageant is being conducted in Pattaya this week.    



Congrats to our Thai sisters on a successful and historic TDOR event. 


Thursday, November 18, 2010

The TDOR Is A Memorial, Not A Party

One of the things that I've heard over and over from some quarters of the trans community about the upcoming November 20 worldwide celebration of the Transgender Day of Remembrance is that it's 'too somber' or 'depressing'.

Um, hello  It's a memorial to the people we've lost to anti-transgender violence.   It's not supposed to be a happy-happy joy-joy event.

TDOR is designed to point out to the media the cost of anti-trans violence.  It's an opportunity for our allies to do intersectional work with our community and support us on one of our issues.  And when I lost my friend Nakhia to violence while living in Louisville back in 2008, it became a way to show the family and friends of the departed transperson how much we love and respect that individual and provide some closure for all who knew the person.

It is not an opportunity for GLAAD, HRC or other GL orgs to fundraise in our community for your coffers, or for college students or people to have an excuse to party.   You want a party, then do so on the International Day of Trans Visibility or pick another day on the calendar such as TDOR founder Gwen Smith suggested, the August anniversary date of the 1966 Compton's Cafeteria riots..  

TDOR exists as a day for us to memorialize the people that we've lost and get people to focus on the fact we are taking the brunt of violence aimed at the TBLG community.   I damned sure as a transperson of African descent want to keep it in the forefront of people's minds that 70% of the people we memorialize every year are transpeople of color..  

There are 364 other days on the calendar (365 in a leap year) for partying.   This isn't one of them.




Saturday, November 13, 2010

Damned If We Do-Damned If We Don't

One of the things our opponents consistently rail about is the Almighty Porcelain Throne Room.    In their zeal to use the bathroom as their lone propaganda weapon of choice in their fight to keep trans people from getting our badly needed constitutional rights, they've used falsehood filled 'bathroom predator'  arguments. 



Some of our opponents have even suggested we use the bathroom based on the genitalia between our legs irregardless of the physical morphing of our bodies.

Um, no.   Here's an example of why transpeople reject that latter argument.  

A Canadian transman in the early stages of his transformation was struck in the face at St. Thomas University in Fredericton, NB because he entered the women's restroom 

Now imagine what would happed to a transwoman if she were forced to or told she had to go to the men's room despite estrogen working its feminine magic on her body.  

Does the word 'boot dance' conjure up any painfully problematic scenarios for you?

I'm not down with taking a beatdown simply to pee.  That's illogical    While I try to role model Kingian principles in my life, there are times when if you put your hands on me in anythign but a loving manner, be prepared for the consequences of that action. especailly when all I want to do is simply pee in peace.

The point is, and it bears repeating, there is NO documented instance of a transperson sexually or violently assaulting any cis person in a restroom.    Truth be told, the assaults that are documented like the incident in New Brunswick are the other way around and we are on the receiving end of the violence.

So we're damned if we do, damned if we don't in terms of the gender binary laced politics surrounding the Almighty Porcelain Throne Room.

So I ask the question again that I've asked in other posts on this blog..  Can a transbrother or transsister pee in peace?    And if no is your answer to that question, why is it your business or concern what bathroom I and my transpeeps use anyway?

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Alexandra Can Stay In USA

Tom Tancredo and most of the Republifool anti-immigration crowd are always screaming 'deport them' as their answer to the immigration debate when in many cases, it's not that simple.

In addition to the fact there are an estimated 12 million undocumented people here, what if you immigrated to the States without documentation to save your life?

That's the situation 32 year old transwoman Alexandra Reyes found herself in.   While growing up in Cenotillo, Mexico she got caught at age 8 wearing her sister's clothes and shoes. She was tied to a tree by her father and severely beaten for it.

The non acceptance and trans hatred in her family continued to fester and only escalated from that point.
An aunt once walked into her bedroom bearing a machete with the intent to kill her because she didn't want Alexandra in the family any more. 

The Mexican police would decline to arrest her tormentors, so in 2000 she paid a smuggler to get her across the border, then spent four days and nights walking across the desert until she reached Colorado and the safety of a friend who was living there.

She got into trouble over a round trip cab fare from Aurora, CO to Breckenridge that totaled $500 but the friend she was meeting refused to pay thus sticking her with the bill.   She went to the cab company a week later to pay it, but the cab company called the police, who then called ICE (Immigration and Customs Enforcement) on her.    

Because Alexandra is preoperative, she spent 11 months housed with male prisoners in an immigration detention facility but according to a Denverpost.com report didn't have any adverse incidents happen.

Because same gender marriage is legal in Mexico City and GLBT tourists head to Mexican beach resorts on a regular basis,  there is a perception among immigration judges that Mexico is tolerant and welcoming.   But what many people also forget is that Mexico is a Roman Catholic with rural pockets of intolerance in in the country. 


Alexandra's immigration attorney Bryon Large argued before the Board of Immigration Appeals against her deportation back to Mexico by recalling a case of a gay Mexican citizen that was deported after being denied asylum by Canada.   That person was found dead after returning to Mexico.

Alexandra clearly fit into that category.   "It would be physically dangerous for her to walk down the street," said Large. 'She could be sexually assaulted"
 
Thanks to the efforts of Large and the Rocky Mountain Immigrant Advocacy Network, Reyes was
granted asylum last week based on the abuse she'd already suffered and the determination that she would not be protected by the Mexican government if she were deported.

One of the conditions of her asylum status is she can't leave the US and has to stay out of legal trouble.   But it's not like Reyes is eager to return to her birth country.  She's now living in a Aurora apartment with friends and deciding what kind of work she'd like to do while waiting to receive her work permit

"What I have seen here is people are more open than people from my country," she said. "Sometimes I miss Mexico, but I am scared to return."


Sunday, November 07, 2010

2010 Houston TDOR On UH Campus

There will be Transgender Day Of Remembrance ceremonies all over the world as the website Ethan maintains will point out.   But this will be the first TDOR I get to attend back in my hometown.

I've been a part of TDOR events hosted by the Louisville Presbyterian Theological Seminary on one level or another for the past 8 years, so it's going to be a little strange in not having a speaking role or taking part in the planning for it.

But as I have to remind myself, I've only been back for five months, and I'd better be careful what I wish for.
  
That's a nice segue into the next part of this post.   For those of you in the Houston area who wish to attend the 2010 Houston TDOR, it will be held on November 20 at the A.D. Bruce Religion Center on the UH Main Campus.

To get to it from I-45 South (downtown):
- exit Cullen
- turn right on Cullen
- turn left into UH Entrance 13A
- you cannot reach this building by car, but the Religion Center is the white building at the far end of the gated parking lot

Parking Information
To obtain a visitor parking permit, visit the Information Center at Entrance 1 on UH University Dr. or the Information Center on Cullen Blvd near the Athletics/Alumni Facility.
The closest parking lots are 9C and 15F.

The TDOR will start at 7 PM CST.     Hope to see many of you local TransGriot readers, allies and friends there.