tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20389448.post1060999050277532344..comments2024-03-20T06:44:28.606-05:00Comments on TransGriot: We Don't Want No Scrubs, EitherMonica Robertshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09702533200851174728noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20389448.post-67848175364761520782009-02-18T10:04:00.000-06:002009-02-18T10:04:00.000-06:00Ah, Ms Gina, cute as ever. :) Yes, I prefer my men...Ah, Ms Gina, cute as ever. :) <BR/><BR/>Yes, I prefer my men with their remotes intact! :)Nicholehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14493388319402851234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20389448.post-4262426857689925502009-02-17T23:53:00.000-06:002009-02-17T23:53:00.000-06:00Nichole, when you say 'encouching' a penis, do you...Nichole, when you say 'encouching' a penis, do you mean getting a guy with a penis to lie down on the couch? That's not so hard to do, just give him the remote control, a dish of ice cream and stoke his hair (if he has any). Works like a charm. <BR/><BR/>And Monica, I totally agree not every man who is interested or open to relationships with transwomen by any means deserves the tag of "chaser" any more than I would deserve the tag of "penis chaser!" :-)Ginahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11126067426459920339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20389448.post-27541547084342962452009-02-17T19:50:00.000-06:002009-02-17T19:50:00.000-06:00Hi Monica, I moved my Blog to Private. If you sti...Hi Monica, I moved my Blog to Private. If you still wish to follow it, Please email me directly and I will add you. I just need your email.<BR/><BR/>chloeprince@sbcglobal.netChloe Princehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07442708329125133886noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20389448.post-73098153952143336502009-02-17T13:16:00.000-06:002009-02-17T13:16:00.000-06:00I agree that chaser and others should be aware of ...I agree that chaser and others should be aware of that. But the "unsaid" piece of the whole matter seems to me to be sisters who feel that the end all and be all of their lives is "finding a straight guy."<BR/><BR/>I'm sorry, but being able to encouch a penis isn't a huge trick that cannot be done by any but the very best women!! <BR/><BR/>I mean, get real, girls. <BR/><BR/>My sisters' esteem and validity problems have a whole darned lot to do with the state of affairs as well, Monica. <BR/><BR/>Surely women of transsexing histories should be well aware that possession, in any fashion, of a penis isn't necessarily the end-all-be-all of human accomplishment!! :) <BR/><BR/>Thanks for another great post!Nicholehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14493388319402851234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20389448.post-67967926251175338412009-02-17T13:05:00.000-06:002009-02-17T13:05:00.000-06:00Monica-I have been mulling these ideas over since ...Monica-<BR/><BR/>I have been mulling these ideas over since TDOR where I noticed a decided lack of participation from (non-gay)men. In my own life I can point to any number of guys who seem to be under the impression that I should be grateful for their time and attention. When I demand respect, I am promptly "put in my place" (well the few times I let it get that far).<BR/><BR/>I recently posted on a forum by and for guys who like teh tranz my observations in this vein a couple guys mentioned that everyone gets beaten and murdered (nullifying the need for TDOR) and "How DARE you be so sanctimonious as to call us out like this - maybe we should just stop dating you and see how you like that." - shrugrioTgirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00290068358461676791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20389448.post-39614384070489231852009-02-17T11:51:00.000-06:002009-02-17T11:51:00.000-06:00Gina, amen.This was basically as you can tell aime...Gina, amen.<BR/>This was basically as you can tell aimed at the 'chasers'.<BR/><BR/>There are guys who sincerely want transwomen in their lives as friends and lovers, they're just harder to find.Monica Robertshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09702533200851174728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20389448.post-62359002097586801262009-02-17T10:20:00.000-06:002009-02-17T10:20:00.000-06:00Monica, good post! What I think a lot of women in ...Monica, good post! What I think a lot of women in the trans community don't talk about is how many "chasers" are actually attracted to the low self-esteem a lot of transwomen have (our frequent feelings of being 'broken goods' or 'less than'). Guys are into the power and sense of control they get from manipulating that (and, as you said, gives them license to be a dog). Our societal vulnerability bestows on them a higher social position than us and that's a big turn on for a lot of very insecure men.Ginahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11126067426459920339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20389448.post-55714514682157976682009-02-17T10:14:00.000-06:002009-02-17T10:14:00.000-06:00R.I.P. Left Eye.R.I.P. Left Eye.Ginahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11126067426459920339noreply@blogger.com